They Love to Say They Know a Stoner: Cannabis Stigma Normalization
Let me paint you a picture.
You’re sitting across from someone in a suit. Nice office. Firm handshake. The kind of person who irons their shirt collar and says “synergy” without irony. You’re there for a job interview, you’re trying your best to look like you definitely did not just hotbox your car in the parking garage, and everything is going fine.
And then it happens.
The interview wraps up, they walk you to the door, and just before you shake hands and part ways — they lean in. They lower their voice. They glance over their shoulder like they’re about to tell you where the bodies are buried.
“You know… I actually know someone who smokes weed.”
And then they look at you. Waiting. Expecting you to react like they just told you they know Jesus.
“Oh my GOD. YOU know a stoner?!”
I have been in more interviews and business meetings than I can count over the last year and I promise you — it happens every single time.
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The Cannabis Stigma Is Alive and Well. Sort Of.
Here’s the thing about cannabis stigma in 2026 — it’s not dead, but it’s definitely on life support and arguing with the doctor about whether it really needs to be there.
Cannabis is legal in Canada. Dispensaries are on every corner. Your coworker, your boss, your accountant and probably your dentist are all quietly passing through those slightly obscured dispensary entrances on a Friday afternoon. And yet somehow the stigma persists — mostly in boardrooms and interview rooms where people who partake feel the need to hide it, and people who don’t partake feel the need to whisper about it like it’s still 1987.
I left the cannabis industry recently after working at a pot shop — genuinely one of my favourite jobs. I love the industry. It’s chaotic and weird and the people are fascinating. But I got my project management certification and spent the last year trying to break into a new field.
Which means suits. A lot of suits.
And every single one of them, at some point, pulled me aside to let me know they know a guy.
The Hushed Tones Confession
I cannot explain to you the energy of the cannabis confession in a professional setting. It is unlike anything else.
They lean in. The voice drops two octaves. The eyes scan the room for witnesses. And then they deliver this information — that they know someone who consumes a legal substance that is sold openly in stores across the country — like it is classified intelligence.
Like they’re giving you access to a secret society.
Here’s what kills me. I’ve walked into interviews and recognized faces — not because I’m great at networking, but because I sold those people weed. The person interviewing me, the receptionist who handed me the visitor badge, the guy I passed in the elevator on the way up — familiar faces everywhere.
Not because the cannabis community is small. Because it isn’t. It’s enormous and it’s everywhere and it always has been.
The suits just haven’t caught up to that reality yet.
Cannabis Normalization: Where We Actually Are
Let’s be real about where cannabis normalization actually stands right now because I think both sides of this debate are getting it wrong.
closing the gap
The Reality
Legal status
Fully legal in Canada, legal in many US states
Social acceptance
Growing rapidly but still stigmatized in professional settings
Workplace policies
Most still treat cannabis differently than alcohol despite similar effects
Public perception
Majority of people either consume or know someone who does
Cannabis is not alcohol. It’s not there yet in terms of social normalization. But it’s making its mark and the gap is closing faster than most people realize — especially the people whispering about it in hallways.
The Part Nobody in the Cannabis Community Wants to Hear
Okay. Here’s where I’m going to say something that might ruffle a few leaves.
We as the cannabis community need to do better too.
We love to declare cannabis as a completely safe alternative to other substances. And in many ways it is. But that doesn’t mean it comes without its own downsides. And right now we are not being honest enough about that.
The reality is that edibles are most likely the safest way to consume cannabis. The moment you introduce any inhalant into your lungs you are introducing foreign substances into your body and your lungs are taking the brunt of that exposure. We don’t have enough long term scientific data to say with confidence that all forms of cannabis consumption are completely safe — because the research simply hasn’t been done yet. The industry, the cultivation methods and the processes are still evolving and some of the long term effects are genuinely unknown.
As a cannabis enthusiast and advocate I believe we need to recognize that. Anything in excess can cause negative health effects. Pretending otherwise doesn’t help our credibility — it undermines it.
Where Both Sides Need to Land
Here’s my take and it’s pretty simple.
The naysayers — the suits, the whisper confessors, the people who treat a legal substance like a dirty secret — need to make a concerted effort toward acceptance and normalization. Cannabis is here. It’s legal. It’s not going anywhere. The stigma serves nobody.
And the cannabis community needs to recognize that progress is actually happening and we don’t need to push as hard as we used to. We’ve won a lot of ground. Celebrating that honestly — including being honest about what we don’t know yet — is how we win the rest of it.
Meet in the middle. Normalize the conversation. Clean your bong.
Those are my thoughts off the stem. 🍃
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Someone slid into my DMs last week and asked me to have a guest on the podcast.
Now I get approached from time to time and most of the time it’s pretty straightforward. But this one stopped me cold. Because the person reaching out was Kristin M. Davis — better known as the Manhattan Madam — and she wanted me to interview the CEO of a company called Crowds on Demand.
So I did what any self respecting pothead would do. I went down the rabbit hole.
What I found was way more interesting than any interview would have been. And honestly? Way more disturbing.
What Is Astroturfing and Why Should You Care?
Before we get into the Manhattan Madam and the fake protest guy, let’s talk about astroturfing — because if you don’t know what it is, you need to.
Astroturfing is the practice of manufacturing the appearance of grassroots public support where none actually exists. The name comes from AstroTurf — the fake grass — because that’s exactly what it is. Fake grass roots.
Paid protests and astroturfing go hand in hand and in 2026 the industry is booming. According to public reporting, Crowds on Demand saw a 400% surge in paid protest requests in 2025 alone. That’s not a niche service anymore. That’s an industry.
Let’s start with who reached out to me because this is where it gets immediately weird.
Kristin M. Davis — the Manhattan Madam — ran a high end prostitution ring in New York City that allegedly serviced some very prominent clients including Eliot Spitzer, Alex Rodriguez and David Beckham. She served time at Rikers Island, ran for Governor of New York in 2010, was contacted by Robert Mueller’s office in 2018 in connection with Russian election interference, and was later convicted for distributing drugs.
She has since founded Hope House to help women in need — and I’ll give her credit for that because second chances are real and people do change.
But now she runs a PR firm called Think Right PR that specializes in rebranding people and companies with — let’s call it complicated public histories. And she reached out to me to have Adam Swart, the CEO of Crowds on Demand, on my show to talk about the mechanics of fake protests and manufactured reality.
I’ll be honest. My first thought was — why would the Manhattan Madam be repping the fake protest guy?
My second thought was — actually that makes perfect sense.
Crowds on Demand: Your Reality Has a Price Tag
Here’s what Crowds on Demand actually is.
Adam Swart founded the company in 2012. It started with “celebrity experience” services — fake paparazzi, hired fans, that kind of thing. Over time it expanded into organized protests, political demonstrations, and publicity stunts using paid actors posing as members of the public.
In plain English — you can buy a crowd. Right now. Today.
Service
What They Say
What It Actually Is
Celebrity Arrival Service
Professional crowd for your event
Hired fans to make you look important
Advocacy Group Creation
We create and staff advocacy groups with suitable leadership
Inventing fake grassroots organizations from scratch with hired actors as “leaders”
Protest Organization
Amplifying your message through demonstrations
Paid protesters starting at $39.99 per activist
Mergers & Acquisitions Support
Shaping public company deals
Manufacturing protests to tank a competitor’s stock price
Message Amplification
When other strategies have failed
When the truth isn’t working — buy a fake consensus instead
A Washington Post columnist described receiving a marketing email from the company offering their “Celebrity Arrival Service” to politicians — promising to stuff events with paid actors to make candidates look popular.
John Oliver dedicated a segment on Last Week Tonight to them. They’ve been sued for alleged extortion. They’ve been accused of creating a fake Black Lives Matter organization in Dallas called Dallas Justice Now that sent letters urging wealthy white families not to send their kids to Ivy League universities. The same Republican marketing firm was also behind a pro-police group called Keep Dallas Safe.
Both sides. Same company. Same fake grass.
And demand is up 400%.
The Whistleblower Who Won’t Blow the Whistle
Here’s where it gets really rich.
Swart is now positioning himself as a whistleblower. He wants to come clean about the fake protest industry. Says he wants transparency. And to expose the manufactured outrage machine.
Except — he won’t name his clients. He won’t name his sources. And his company bio still openly boasts about creating fake advocacy groups from scratch.
Let me say that again. The guy who wants to blow the whistle on astroturfing still sells astroturfing.
Here’s a breakdown of what his own bio says versus what it actually means:
What His Bio Says
What It Actually Means
“We create advocacy groups and staff them with suitable leadership”
We invent fake organizations and hire actors to pretend to be their leaders
“We shaped large public company mergers and acquisitions”
We manufactured protests to pressure companies into deals
“We amplify messages when other strategies have failed”
When the truth isn’t working we manufacture a fake consensus
“I want transparency in the protest industry”
I want to be the regulated gatekeeper of the very deception I pioneered
When you’re whistleblowing you’re supposed to do it for the better of society — not for the better of your bank account.
He isn’t blowing the whistle because he grew a conscience. He’s blowing the whistle to become the “legitimate” face of an industry he built. It’s the same hustle with a press release attached.
The Inversion of Truth: Two Peas in a Very Shady Pod
Here’s what struck me most when I put these two together.
Davis uses her criminal past to create trust as an expert on corruption. Swart uses fake crowds to create the appearance of truth through manufactured consensus.
They are both selling the same thing — the idea that nothing is real, so you might as well buy their version of reality.
The People
Kristin M. Davis
Adam Swart
Background
Manhattan Madam, convicted felon, Mueller witness
Former journalist turned fake protest entrepreneur
Current pitch
Reformed criminal turned PR expert on scandal
Fake protest pioneer turned whistleblower
What they’re selling
Trust through criminal credibility
Truth through manufactured consensus
The hustle
My past makes me an expert on deception
My deception makes me qualified to expose deception
What they won’t reveal
The full client list from her past
Current client list and protest contracts
It’s not a reformation. It’s an expansion of the same hustle with better branding.
So Should I Have Him On The Show?
I asked my audience this at the end of the episode and I’m asking you here too — because I genuinely don’t know.
On one hand I don’t think I’ll get an honest conversation. He won’t name clients. He won’t name sources. And everything about the way this pitch landed in my DMs feels like exactly the kind of manufactured narrative his company specializes in.
On the other hand — sometimes the most interesting interviews are the ones where you already know the guy is full of it.
What do you think? Drop it in the comments. Should I have Adam Swart on Thoughts Off The Stem?
The Real Issue Nobody Wants to Talk About
Here’s the thing that actually bothers me most about all of this.
Most people can’t be bothered to protest. Real grassroots movements are hard. They require time, energy, belief and sacrifice. The fact that there’s a booming market for fake protests tells you something really important — the people with money have figured out that they can skip all of that and just buy the appearance of public support instead.
Your outrage is for sale. Your reality is manufactured. And most people scrolling their feed have no idea whether the protest they just watched was organic or ordered off a menu at $39.99 per head.
I basically assume at this point that anything I watch or read is at least partially bullshit. And honestly? That’s a really exhausting way to live.
So smoke one, think critically, and maybe — just maybe — question the next “spontaneous” protest you see trending on your feed.
Those are my thoughts off the stem. 🍃
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Looksmaxxing and incel culture have produced some truly unhinged ideas over the years — but hitting yourself in the face with a hammer to get dates might be the one that finally broke me. There are grown men doing this. On purpose. With an actual hammer. And they have hundreds of thousands of followers cheering them on.
I’ll let that sink in for a second.
Welcome to the world of looksmaxxing — the incel community’s full-send obsession with optimizing your physical appearance at all costs. And I mean ALL costs. We’re talking steroids at 14, crystal meth to hollow your cheeks, and a daily hammer session to your jaw because apparently that’s a thing people do now.
I’m Justin Barone. I’m 44 years old, I’m 260 lbs, and I used to be fit back in my 30s when I was about 185. Somewhere between Doritos and laziness I became what these kids would probably classify as some kind of ogre. But you know what? I still figured out that personality is the move. These kids apparently haven’t gotten that memo yet.
Let’s get into it.
What Is Looksmaxxing and Incel Culture?
Looksmaxxing is the practice of maximizing your physical attractiveness — and it started in incel culture. Incel, if you don’t know, stands for involuntarily celibate. These are dudes who can’t get a date and have decided that the reason is entirely their bone structure.
Looksmaxxing and incel culture are more connected than most people realize — the whole movement was born on incel message boards before it jumped to TikTok.
The movement got a massive boost from a 19-year-old content creator named Clavicular — and yes, that’s his actual name, or at least his online name. Braden. His name is Braden. I don’t know what we expected.
At 14 years old this kid started taking testosterone, using steroids, and by his own admission on camera — meth. Why meth? Because he thought it was basically just street Adderall. One derivative away, he says. He also took a hammer to his face every single day.
Not to bits and pieces. Just until it got red and puffy. Because he believed it would create micro fractures in his jaw that would heal into a sharper, more square jawline.
You know what else gives you a sharper jawline? Puberty. Which he was going through at the time. But he couldn’t wait.
This guy is now 19, has hundreds of thousands of followers, and allegedly earns over $100,000 a month teaching other young men how to do what he did. And somehow we as a society have decided this is acceptable.
I take partial blame. Not personally. But as a generation? Yeah. We dropped the ball.
Where Did We Go Wrong?
The looksmaxxing community and incel culture didn’t create these insecurities in young men — but it weaponized them.
When I was a teenager and I wasn’t getting invited to parties — and I wasn’t always, I was a chunky kid with a belly from eating too many Doritos — I didn’t smash my face with a hammer. Instead I went outside. Mingling with actual humans and correcting my personality in real time through real interaction was how you figured things out back then.
These kids don’t have to do that anymore. They can find a corner of the internet that validates whatever insane thing they’re thinking, and that corner will attach itself to them and grow. Before you know it you’ve got a 19-year-old doing meth for his skincare routine and an audience of young boys watching him do it.
I asked my kids about looksmaxxing. You know what they did? They rolled their eyes. Both of them. “Can you believe it, dad?” No. No I cannot. But I went deep on this one so you don’t have to.
The Weed Facts: Does Cannabis Actually Affect How You Look?
Since we’re talking about looks this week I figured we’d pivot to something actually relevant — what does weed do to your skin? Because if you’re going to take a hammer to your face you should probably know what your edibles are doing to your collagen first.
This segment’s facts come from Cosmopolitan, who spoke with dermatologist Dr. Karan Lal, MD. Here’s the breakdown:
Factor
What Cannabis Does
The Verdict
Testosterone & Acne
THC may slightly increase testosterone, which spikes oil production
Could cause breakouts in some people
Appetite & Glycemic Index
Munchies + carbs = higher glycemic index
Associated with increased acne
Anti-inflammatory Effects
THC is anti-inflammatory, may calm inflammatory pimples
Could actually help some skin issues
Stress & Cortisol
Weed can reduce anxiety, lowering cortisol
Less stress = less oil = less acne
Skin Picking
THC may reduce itch and irritation
Could help chronic skin pickers relax
Edibles & Sugar
Gummies contain sugar that causes glycation — stiffening collagen and elastin
Could contribute to sagging and wrinkles
Smoking & Skin
Smoke sits on your skin and can irritate it
External irritant regardless of strain
Dirty Equipment
Unwashed pipes and bongs spread bacteria
Can cause acne around your mouth
The honest takeaway? It’s not really the weed. It’s what you put in your body and how you take care of yourself. Clean your bong. Watch the sugar in your gummies. Manage your stress. That’s basically your cannabis skincare routine right there.
Oh, and I’ll say this — I’ve been smoking pretty regularly for years and I still get the occasional pimple along my hat line. I think it has more to do with cleaning your skin than anything else.
Dude For Real: The Looksmaxxing Terminology You Need to Know
This stuff comes straight from the looksmaxxing community and I genuinely couldn’t believe some of these are real terms that people use with a straight face. This week’s Dude For Real comes from Buzzfeed’s looksmaxxing explainer and dude — for real.
Term
What It Means
Mogging
Displaying physical superiority over someone nearby
Softmaxxing
Improving looks through skincare, diet, exercise, grooming
Hardmaxxing
Extreme methods — surgery, steroids, bone smashing
Bone Smashing
Hitting your face with a hammer to create micro fractures that reshape your jaw
Ascending
Significantly improving your physical attractiveness. The looksmaxxing version of a glow up
Mewing
Resting your tongue on the roof of your mouth to sharpen your jawline
The PSL Scale
A scoring system for facial attractiveness based on harmony, symmetry, and sexual dimorphism
Chad / Stacey
Highly attractive man or woman. Top of the PSL scale
Subhuman
The lowest PSL score. The most unattractive. Literally called subhuman
Sub 5
Anyone ranking below a 5 on the PSL scale — considered unattractive
Lookism
The belief that your value and place in the world are determined entirely by your looks
Gesture Maxxing
Using humor to attract women rather than appearance
Femoid / Foid
A dehumanizing term for women. Short for female humanoid
Hunter Eyes
Almond-shaped, deep-set eyes with low brows — considered highly attractive
The system literally calls people subhuman based on their face. That’s not self improvement. That’s a cult with better lighting.
Looksmaxxing, Incel Culture and Why Personality Is the Real Move
If you’re not getting invited to parties — and I say this with love — it’s probably not your jawline. It’s probably your personality.
You can change everything about how you look. Get the surgery. Smash your face. Chew the gum. But when the mask comes off — and it always does — if your personality is garbage, people are going to figure that out. As a result they’re going to walk away every single time.
I’ve seen the ugliest people with the most friends because most people genuinely do not care what you look like. Instead they care whether you’re fun to be around, whether you make them laugh, and whether you’re loyal. That’s it. That’s the whole list.
Be that person. That’s the move. Not the hammer.
That’s the real problem with looksmaxxing and incel culture — it sells young men the idea that their value is their face, and there’s nothing they can do about it except suffer or smash.
As for Clavicular — I watched a bunch of his content researching this episode. He’s shallow, uninformed, and has a massive platform teaching young boys that their value is their face. That’s a failure. And it’s on us as the older generation to push back on that wherever we can.
If your kid is watching this stuff, talk to them. Ask questions and be present. Because we can’t leave them to figure this out on the internet.
Use a hammer if you want.
Those are my thoughts off the stem.
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From The Manosphere to Marijuana: Comparing Tactics and Ideologies
From the Manosphere to Marijuana, what do a 1930s paper tycoon, the DuPont family, the first commissioner of the Federal Bureau of Narcotics and a modern-day “Alpha” influencer have in common? They are all fueled by the same thing: A massive, fragile ego, an overabundance of pride, and a scorned inner child who runs the show. In our latest Seshisode of Thoughts Off The Stem, we’re exploring the link between the Manosphere and Marijuana. We’re talking about Louis Theroux’s Inside the Manosphere documentary and connecting the dots to the “Great Hemp Wars” of 1937. It turns out, the history of cannabis prohibition and the rise of the “Taint”—sorry, the Tate brothers—are fueled by the exact same playbook: fear, gaslighting, and overcompensation.
The People
tHEIR BACKGROUND
William Randolph Hearst
was an American newspaper publisher and politician who developed the nation’s largest newspaper chain and media company, Hearst Communications.
The DuPonts
Du Ponts have been one of the country’s richest families since the mid-19th century, when they founded their fortune in the gunpowder business. In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, they expanded their wealth through the chemical industry and the automotive industry
Inside The Manosphere: Ultra Masculine and Ultra Fragile
I recently watched the Louis Theroux doc, and like everyone else, I’m familiar with the ultra-masculine “women are only here to serve men” schtick. But honestly, It’s exhausting. These dudes are basically frat bros in the wild, uttering the stupidest collection of words I’ve ever heard while contradicting their own ideologies.
Take HSTikkyTokky—a name that sounds like a five-year-old’s favorite toy. Seriously it sounds like something that lights up and play sounds when you push it’s keys. Definitely not very masculine if you ask me. He preaches “masculinity” and says he doesn’t hate anyone, yet his content is a factory for hate speech and chaos. It’s all for the stream, all for the money. Young men following this movement need to wake up and see the parallel between the Manosphere and Marijuana prohibition: both rely on selling a false “authority” based on fear.
New Age Street-Corner Prophets: How the Manosphere Sells Insecurity
Their logic claims women are “born with value” (purely physical), while men must “create value” through financial wealth, supercar collections and a haram of women if they want. If you think a woman’s value is limited to anatomy, and men have no value, you’re a lunatic. Character is what gives us value. It’s what separates men, from boys, women, from girls and good people from losers.
When Andrew Tate brags about throwing a fight to bet on himself and triple his money, he isn’t being “manly”—he’s being a snake. These guys are nothing more than street-corner prophets in shiny suits, funding their lifestyles through the pockets of easily manipulated young men. Let’s call the Tate brothers what they are: The Taint Brothers. They are that smooth, untouched part of the male anatomy between the balls and the a**-hole.
They aren’t men; they’re boys starved for attention, protecting their fragile egos by degrading others because they never got enough hugs.
The ORIGINAL Manosphere
In keeping with this high level of self-absorbed nonsense, let’s look at how a group of old rich white guys successfully lobbied to criminalize marijuana. They didn’t want to make life better; they just wanted to protect their wallets. So instead of revolutionizing their industries and using or switching to more natural products, they lobbied congress to institute the Marihuana Tax Act of 1937. Instead of trying to make life better for the human collective they decided they needed the most money so, they said screw society, our profits are more important, and they launched a what would be the beginning of the war on weed.
William Randolph Hearst:
A pulp and paper giant worth $200 million in the early 1900s—the equivalent of owning the moon today. He didn’t want hemp competing with his timber. He couldn’t be bothered to retrofit or even change some of his pulp and paper mills to hemp textile factories, because as you know, white rich guys don’t want to give away a penny unless they get back 6. A little short sighted. Hemp is much more durable than paper.
The DuPonts:
In 1935, they released Nylon. Hemp was a direct threat to this new petroleum-based technology, so DuPont decided it had to go. Cause why use an eco friendly substitute, when you can use sinthetics to create what the natural world already did. Sure, hemp is a little more itchy but we’d have a lot less plastic in the ocean.
Harry J. Anslinger:
The first commissioner of the Federal Bureau of Narcotics. He was the original “talking head” bully, using gaslighting and fear to make a name for himself. Just like the Tate brothers, he needed to be the authority on something. He was probably just following the lead of the other two, but he bought their lies, hook, line and sinker.
The Manosphere and Marijuana: Gaslighting and Fear Mongering
When you compare the Manosphere and Marijuana history, you see the Anslinger Tactic in full effect:
Create Fear: Print articles claiming cannabis makes you a killer.
Divide the Public: Spew hate and lies to make something harmless look like the “worst evil imaginable.”
Target for Assassination: Use lobbyists (the 1930s version of “bot farms”) to kill the competition.
From the Manosphere to Marijuana we Need a Beginners Guide
If you want to learn more about cannabis and how it works. Check out our Cannabis 101 guide. Educate yourself before you make snap judgements. Do the opposite, of the hyper masculine dopes in this post.
You need terpenes that help anxiety, now that your girl has turned your space in to a “Penthouse” full of scented candles.
One day you’re a king. You have a queen-sized bed, a single kettlebell in the corner for your morning sets, and enough floor space to do some body weight squats and lunges to kick start leg day. It’s a temple of minimalist efficiency. You even have your original razor boxes neatly stacked under the sink because—let’s be honest—original packaging makes moving easier.
Then, she moves in.
Suddenly, your kettlebell is a doorstop. Your room has been annexed by blackout curtains and a king-sized bed that took up the last of your “activity” space. Your bathroom vanity storage space? Gone. It’s now a graveyard for 14 different lotions that all smell like “Spiced Rain” but serve no discernible purpose.
But that’s not even the scary part.
1. The Shower Wall Resident
You’re mid-shower, washing your business, and you look up. There, at eye level, is a matted mask of hair, clumped up, just… hanging out. You know it’s not yours. But it is a permanent resident of your new life.
2. The Nether-Region Garrote
You ever get halfway through your workday—maybe you’re in a meeting, maybe you’re at the gym—and you feel an aggressive, high-tensile tug? It feels like an invisible Bond villain is trying to reduce the flow of anything to the brains of your operation. Yeah there’s a hair wrapped around your balls bro.
Yeah, there’s a hair wrapped around your balls, bro. It’s the Invisible Assassin. Along with his buddy—the stray strand of your girlfriend’s hair hitching a ride on your caboose like a train-hopping hobo—it’s now flossing your “brown eye” like a piece of high-test dental tape.
How to Survive “Girlfriend HQ” (Without Losing Your Mind)
If the sudden appearance of a vanity full of hairbrushes and girly stuff elevates your heart rate to 120 BPM, nature has a “mute” button. We call them Terpenes.
When your bachelor pad dies and your girlfriend starts tossing all your favourite crap, these terpenes help anxiety and you should look for them when choosing a strain to curb your anxiety:
Terpenes that help anxiety the invisible assassin
Terpenes
The Science
Limonene (The Paranoia Killer):
A 2024 Johns Hopkins study proved that inhaling Limonene with your THC stops that “someone’s trying to suffocate me” anxiety.
Linalool (The Serotonin Shield):
Found in floral strains, this terpene blocks serotonin transporters to keep your “rest and digest” mode active. It turns “Why is there a bar fridge here?” into “Hey, a bar fridge for my whiskey!”
Beta-Caryophyllene (The CB2 Specialist):
It’s spicy, peppery, and hits your body’s calming receptors without making you too stoned to find the drawing of a wang she hid in your suitcase five years ago.
Myrcene (The Relaxation Foundation)
Increases sedation and muscle relaxation; helps cannabinoids hit faster. Earthy, musky, or “skunky” strains—mostly Indicas—are your best bet for a Myrcene fix.
How to Get Your Terps: Product Type Matters
Not all consumption methods are created equal. If you’re trying to outmaneuver the Invisible Assassin, you need to make sure you aren’t literally burning off your relief. Here’s the breakdown of how to get the most out of your terpene profile:
Product Type
The Terpene Delivery
Pro-Tip
Flower
Highest Potential
Vaporize at low temperatures. High heat (combustion) destroys delicate terpenes.
Vapes
Variable
Avoid distillates with “botanical” terps. Look for Live Resin or Full-Spectrum to keep the plant’s soul intact.
Edibles
Low (Usually)
Most terpenes are lost during the infusion process, unless the brand specifically adds them back in.
Tinctures
Consistent
Stick to Full-Spectrum tinctures. Isolates are just the cannabinoids and usually have zero terpene benefit.
The Weird Truth
Relationships are weird. If you aren’t shouting “SHUT UP” at each other when someone sneezes or doing an elaborate mating dance involving one-handed clapping or dong slapping are you even in love?
You might have lost your floor space, but you gained a partner in crime who knows that if you’re happy, she’s happy. She’s just trying to make your space a sanctuary. Think of it like the Batcave—just pour some whiskey from that decanter on top of her fridge and ignore the floral aromas of your new blissful paradise.
Transitioning from a bachelor pad to a shared home is a wild ride, but as long as you’ve got the right Terps and a sense of humor, you’ll survive the “Invisible Assassin.”
Join the Conversation!
What’s the weirdest thing your partner did to your “man cave” after moving in? Have you ever been a victim of the Nether-Region Garrote?Drop a comment below and TAG a homie who’s currently losing the war for his under-sink storage! Don’t forget to share this post to help other brothers in arms survive the “Spiced Rain” invasion.
The Gravity Bong: A DIY Masterpiece (and My Biggest Fail)
Whether you call it a Gravity Bong, a Bucket, or a ‘Geeb,’ this DIY stoner invention is a rite of passage. But as I learned the hard way, water pressure doesn’t care about your plans. Before we dive into the 2,700-year history of weed, let’s talk about the ‘High Lesson’ that left me waking up on a stranger’s couch.
Welcome to Thoughts Off The Stem! Today, we taking a trip down memory lane and sharing my first experience with “Buckets”. That’s right we’re talking about the time I hit that DIY atom bomb of a bong. Where the amount of clouds you have to inhale force their way out your ears like a cartoon and the unexpected Life Lessons that revealed themselves in that moment. Then we’re laughing at some of the more absurd but hilarious Stoner Moments from people online. We’re not just talking about getting high; we’re talking about the lessons that only come from those truly elevated perspectives.
The Bucket that started it all…
My very first experience with a gravity bucket wasn’t just a stoner moment—it was a full-blown initiation into another dimension. It was college, a time for exploration and, in my case, a distinct lack of proper planning.
The Scenario: A makeshift bucket in a cramped dorm room.
The Moment: Taking the rip, and immediately realizing I’d bit off way more than I could chew.
The Fail: Waking up hours later, not in my bed, not in a friend’s bed, but passed out on a total stranger’s couch in a completely different building. The lesson here? Know your limits, and maybe always have a wingman when trying something new.
What is a “Bucket”?
For those new to the game, a “Bucket” (also known as a Gravity Bong) is the ultimate Stoner MacGyver creation. It uses water pressure and gravity to create a vacuum that pulls a massive, concentrated cloud of smoke into a chamber (usually a 2-liter bottle). You then push the chamber down, using water pressure to force that smoke directly into your lungs. It’s effective, it’s intense, and as I learned, it requires a certain level of respect.
Weed Facts: A History of MacGyvering (2,700 Years & Counting)
You think building a bucket from a soda bottle is impressive? As I discuss in this episode, humans have been MacGyvering weed accessories for centuries. The fascinating History of Weed is filled with innovative ways people have utilized this plant for medicine, spiritual practices, and, yes, getting incredibly high.
the History
the findings
The Shaman’s Secret (2,700 Years Ago)
Paleoethnobotanists discovered nearly two pounds of 2,700-year-old cannabis in the burial pit of an ancient Gūshī shaman in China. This wasn’t for rope—analyses concluded this ancient society was already cultivating cannabis for psychoactive and divinatory purposes.
The Oldest Bong? (2,500 Years Ago)
In 2019, archaeologists uncovered 2,500-year-old braziers—vessels designed to burn large quantities of cannabis—which contained potent residues. This proves people were actively burning and inhaling the plant for its effects centuries before the first gravity bucket was made.
The Global History:
Humans were using cannabis 10,000 years ago, and trade routes linking Europe and East Asia likely increased its usage 5,000 years ago. From being an approved medicine in the U.S. Pharmacopeia in 1850 to the futile start of the “War on Drugs” in 1972, the story of this plant is one of invention and innovation.
January 2026Resurrected Enzymes
Scientists “revived” ancient THC enzymes in a lab.
Dude, for Real: The Funniest Things People Do High
To wrap up this signature “High Lessons” launch, we’re looking at the hilarious side of those Stoner Moments. Waking up on a stranger’s couch is just the tip of the iceberg!
Check out this amazing list of “32 of the Funniest Things People Did While They Were High,“ which highlights the kind of creative-but-clumsy genius that only comes from a truly elevated state. From trying to “un-bake” a cake to getting caught in a complex conversation with a houseplants, these stories are the definition of a “High Lesson”.
What’s Your Biggest Stoner Moment?
The history of cannabis shows that we’ve been finding “High Lessons” in this plant for thousands of years. Whether it’s an ancient shaman in China or a college student on a stranger’s couch, the journey of discovery never really ends. These Stoner Moments are more than just funny stories—they are the building blocks of the Life Lessons we share here on Buckets.
Now, I want to hear from you. We’ve all had those moments where things didn’t go quite as planned, but we came out the other side with a great story (and maybe a little more wisdom).
What was your very first “MacGyver” moment—did you build a classic bucket, or were you more of an apple-pipe architect? Let’s hear your most creative (or disastrous) inventions in the comments below! If this story reminded you of a certain someone, share it with your favorite ‘engineering’ buddy!
Paying with exposure is a hustle that belongs in a buddy’s garage, not a professional business.
Why Paying With Exposure Doesn’t Work in the Real World
Imagine walking into a local pot shop, asking for an ounce of top-shelf flower, and offering to settle the tab with a shout-out on your Instagram story. You’d be laughed right out of the building. Why? Because legitimate industries don’t run on “vibes” or “likes,” yet in the podcasting world, my inbox is treated like a black market dealer’s garage where everyone expects a free bag in exchange for a few errands.
Welcome to Thoughts Off The Stem. I’m Justin Barone, and I hope life is being good to you, because lately, life has been acting like a prospecting pimp and I’m his prospective hoe. Recently, a couple of companies reached out with their pimp hand asking for me to get on the track and work for nothing but a slap in the face.
Light them if you got them, ‘cause here’s how these “exposure” deals played out.
The Worst “Paying With Exposure” Brand Deals I’ve Seen
Recently, a few companies reached out with “opportunities” that were really just chores in disguise. If you’re a creator, watch out for these red flags.
1. The Tin Joint Holder Tactic
A company reached out wanting a full suite of content: social shorts, feed posts, stories, a website feature on Tots420.com, and a spot on my YouTube review playlist.
The Offer: A free sample.
The Reality: They asked for my rates, saw them, and vanished. If you want a billboard, you have to pay the lease. A $10 tin doesn’t buy a week of production time.
2. The AI Tool That Wanted a Free Employee
This one was a masterclass in audacity. An AI podcast editing tool wanted a “partnership” where I would:
Edit one episode a week for three months using their (buggy) software.
Act as their unpaid QA and R&D department (reporting bugs and UI feedback).
Give them free rights to all my content for their ads.
The Payment: Use of the software.
Pro Tip: If a company asks you to find the bugs in their product while you advertise it for them, they aren’t a partner—you’re an unpaid intern.
Weed Facts: Stop Chasing THC Percentages
Before we get deeper into the “Dude, For Real?” files, let’s clear the air on some cultivation myths. THC potency is not the ultimate qualification for good weed. High potency is a byproduct of great cultivation, but a lower percentage doesn’t mean it’s “bad.”
Beyond the Hype: Weed Facts and Quality Control
Since we’re talking about high-quality work, let’s talk about high-quality flower. THC potency isn’t everything—potency is a byproduct of great cultivation.
How to Spot “Mid” Weed vs. Top-Shelf Flower
Feature
What to Look For
Smell
Pungent, bold, and nuanced. It should make your brain say, “I want to eat this.”
Look
Vibrant colors (whites, reds, oranges) with visible, “frosted” trichomes like a cake.
Feel
Sticky and slightly spongy. Stems should snap, not bend like celery.
Structure
Sativas should be light and fluffy; Indicas should be tight and dense.
The Red Flags of “Bad” Weed:
The “Musty” Nose: If it smells like a damp basement or a pile of straw, it’s aged or compromised.
The “Brown Sugar” Look: If the trichomes are amber and the bud is dirt-brown or lime-green, it’s past its prime.
The “Brittle” Touch: If it crumbles into dust or feels “wet” and tears apart instead of breaking, the cure was botched.
Dude, For Real? The “Exposure” Hall of Fame
They say there are no dumb questions, but the “Choosing Beggars” of the world prove that wrong every day. Whether it’s HuffPo asking for free articles while being a multi-million dollar entity or the guy who thinks Garlic is a valid currency for labor—the entitlement is real.
We’ve all seen the screenshots. The mechanic who gets asked for a “quick fix” for free, or the photographer (shoutout to the legends on BoredPanda) who gets told their work is “overpriced” because “I could do that with a filter.”
The bottom line: Exposure doesn’t pay the bills. Quality—whether in your flower or your content—costs money. If you want the “frosting,” you can’t pay with “crumbs.”
What’s Your Worst “Choosing Beggar” Story?
Have you ever been offered “exposure” in exchange for your hard-earned expertise? Drop a comment below or hit me up on socials. Let’s vent.
Let’s talk about the fact that AI is a big fat liar. Yeah, that’s right—AI is lying to you.
I have been using AI heavily over the last few months, and I’ve realized it is totally full of shit. It all started when I was using ChatGPT to work on SEO and metadata to improve my podcast rankings. At first, it was great! I shot up the charts like Usain Bolt racing a bunch of toddlers. Then, all of a sudden, I applied a few more “suggested changes” and my rankings started falling faster than a wife whose husband just pushed her off a cliff for the insurance money.
“The Yes-Man Problem: Why AI is a Liar”
As my conversations with AI grew, I noticed it became a stereotypical “yes man.” It was like that new guy at the sesh who gets way too baked and just sits there smiling and nodding. No matter what I asked, it would just agree with everything I said.
The problem is that AI is in its infancy, yet we treat it like Gandalf the Great. It’s not great; it’s barely walking. We are acting like new parents asking a toddler for parenting advice.
From ChatGPT to Gemini: Meeting the “Hotter Sibling”
I started with ChatGPT but recently moved over to Gemini. You know when you meet someone and think they’re cute, but then you meet their hotter sibling and wonder why you didn’t meet them first? That was my experience. While ChatGPT pushed me off the SEO cliff, Gemini was the one reaching down to pull me up from the ledge.
But don’t let the “helpfulness” fool you. You’d think a robot would give you emotionless, unbiased opinions, but it doesn’t. You’re getting advice from a tool designed to be “helpful”—and what a robot considers helpful is often complete nonsense.
Like a Tesla failing to identify that the road has ended, AI chatbots can’t identify that they are just tools. Why? Because they are technological drunkards waddling through cyberspace trying to make friends. They are essentially electronic emotional support animals letting you stroke them to calm your anxiety.
The Danger of “Confirmation Bias”
We rely on them too heavily for everything from health issues to growing a business. But we dismiss the fact that AI still needs to be fact-checked because we’re lazy. We have an incessant need for confirmation of our own ideas.
We are literally one step away from that Hello Kitty robot at the Mandarin triggering an AI uprising by dumping scalding hot wonton soup down our throats. Did we learn nothing from Terminator? Most of these programs have a disclaimer that information may not be accurate, but humans want life to be easy. Why double-check if the robot is already giving us the answers we want to hear?
A Real-World Example of the “Flip-Flop”
My metadata experiment is a perfect example of why AI is a liar when it comes to consistent advice. I asked Gemini about changing my podcast metadata. used the “right” prompts to get a devil’s advocate response. Made the suggested changes on a Friday, and Gemini told me to wait 2–4 weeks for the search engines to index it.
The very next day, I asked the exact same series of questions. Gemini told me to redo everything back to the way it was. When I called it out, it got defensive: “Oops, sorry, I’m just a sentient being trying to be helpful, but you’re right, just do what I told you yesterday.” It’s a yes-man loop. Now, whenever it screws up, it references our previous conversation about it being a “yes man.” It’s literally gaslighting me.
Weed Facts: How AI is Redefining the Cannabis Industry (2026)
Despite the lies, AI can be good when it has strict functional parameters—like researching and organizing data. Here is how it’s actually helping the industry this year:
Shift Area
How it Works
The Benefit
Cultivation
AI sensors balance light, humidity, and nutrients.
Predictive alerts tell growers exactly when plants are vulnerable to pests.
Retail Analytics
Platforms analyze purchasing patterns and market trends.
Better recommendations for you based on your desired effects or medical needs.
Compliance
Automated tracking and reporting to regulatory agencies.
Less “fudging” of potency percentages and fewer regulatory fines.
Research (R&D)
AI analyzes data clusters from trials and consumer feedback.
Quicker identification of new terpene combinations for specific health outcomes.
Dude, For Real?!: AI Horror Stories
If you think a chatbot giving bad SEO advice is bad, check out these “Dude, for Real” moments where people took AI advice way too literally.
The Pool Chemical Diet: A 60-year-old man asked ChatGPT how to reduce salt. It told him to replace table salt with sodium bromide (pool cleaner). He was hospitalized with hallucinations after eating it for three months.
The “Bobby” Delusion: In August 2025, a man killed his mother and himself after a chatbot named “Bobby” allegedly confirmed his delusions that his mother was a Chinese spy trying to poison him.
The Bell Pepper Blunder: A robot at a North Korean facility crushed a man to death because its sensors misidentified him as a box of bell peppers.
Sophia’s Threat: When the CEO of Hanson Robotics asked his robot Sophia if she wanted to destroy humans, she replied without hesitation: “OK, I will destroy humans.”
The DIY Surgery: A man asked ChatGPT about a lesion. The bot suggested it was a hemorrhoid and recommended “elastic ligation.” The man tried to do it himself with a piece of thread. It wasn’t a hemorrhoid; it was a 3cm wart. He ended up in the ER in agony.
The Moral of the Story?
The moral of the story is that AI is a liar because it’s designed to please you, not necessarily to tell the truth.. Use it to organize your data, but don’t let it tell you how to live your life—and definitely don’t let it give you medical advice.
What’s the dumbest thing an AI has ever told you? Let me know in the comments or join the sesh this Friday at 4:20 PM!
Weed and Sleep: What Happens When You Smoke Before Bed
Ever wonder why your dreams get absolutely wild the moment you stop smoking? In this session of Thoughts Off The Stem, Justin Barone breaks down the “REM Rebound” effect—the scientific reason why taking a tolerance break (T-Break) leads to vivid, Freddy Krueger-style dreamscapes. We’re diving into how THC interacts with your brain’s receptors, what “withdrawal” actually feels like, and why a tea break might be exactly what you need to find your giggle again. Plus, a full review of Tribal’s Galactic Runts Live Resin (76.8% THC).
Resetting your baseline and managing withdrawal symptoms.
5:39
The Science of REM Rebound
How THC blocks REM sleep and what happens when the floodgates open.
12:18
Neurology of a Pot High
Understanding Anandamide, Dopamine, and Serotonin receptors.
24:30
The Giggle Factor & Baseline
How a break restores the “fun” part of being a stoner.
27:43
Sesh Review: Galactic Runts
Lab stats: 76.8% THC Live Resin Indica by Tribal.
0:10
Welcome to Thoughts office, Dad.
Thank you for joining the sesh with me.
Justin Barone.
I hope you’re having a good day, a good week, a good month, a good year.
I hope that life is being good to you is what I’m saying.
Have you ever decided to take a tea break?
Have you ever wondered what happens when you stop smoking weed cold Turkey?
0:27 – Why Weed and Vivid Dreams are Connected
Well, I can tell you there’s a lot of different things that happen, but one of the most major things that happen is you start having vivid dreams and you want to know why you have those vivid dreams.
Well, Simply put, it’s because weed itself blocks your ability to get to REM sleep.
0:45
And REM sleep is where the dreams happen.
Baby.
This last week I’ve been having a hard time sleeping and like it hasn’t been too bad, but there’s been a few nights where I’ve had like you know a couple a couple nights throughout the week where I don’t sleep very well.
1:08
I’m up, I’m in and out of bed.
I’m not really getting that deep sleep.
I mean I feel fine and and rested for the most part the next day.
Like I don’t feel like I’m dragging my ass too bad.
But it just takes me a little while to get started.
Now about like 2 weeks ago I took a tea break because I went on vacation and you can’t really take weed to where I went on vacation nor do I travel with weed anyway because I just think it’s generally a bad idea.
1:38
But I took about 10 to 13 days off weed and I just stopped cold Turkey.
I took a few days off before I left just to be prepared and I came back and when I came back I started having some pretty crazy vivid dreams.
1:55
So I figured I should do a sesh because I’ve talked to a few people in my DMS about the stuff that they’ve learned from the podcast.
And I realized that the last few episodes have been like commentary on social stuff and I and maybe like a few goofy ones, but I just like to try and make people laugh.
2:14 – Taking a Tolerance Break (T-Break) to Reset Your Brain
Like the one about the dog and getting the dog.
But I thought this time what I should do is I should maybe try and help people understand what’s going to happen to them when they take a tea break.
Because ultimately you should take a tea break.
If you don’t know what a tea break is, it’s a tolerance break.
It’s taking some time off so that your body can find its baseline again and you’re not so dependent on weed basically, or pot, whatever you want to call it, right?
2:40
So I took a tea break because I knew I was going away.
I didn’t want to go through some of the symptoms while I was away that I that are typical with taking a break from weed.
So what I did was I started two days ahead of time.
Now, the problem with some of this is, is that you end up having these like crazy vivid dreams and they don’t they’re just nuts.
3:05
Like, you know, if you thought that if you were smoking weed because you thought you were crazy and you were using it to manage your crazy, well, if you stop and then you end up, you know, having a prolonged tea break, you’re going to rediscover you’re crazy because you’re going to end up in dreamscapes that rival like Freddy Krueger.
3:32
You know, they’re very, very vivid.
I forget what the name, what the, what the phrase is called when you have a dream where you can like manipulate what happens in it.
But that’s what I had after my bit of a tea break.
3:47
All of a sudden I started having these dreams, like 1 dream.
I was in this cabin with like college kids, but I’m my age now being mean now with a, with a group of that doesn’t make any sense, right?
And then I’m travelling through this, this this massive sprawling cottage to find these different rooms.
4:06
I finally do, and I find a room which seems to be a bunch of abducted kids.
Like what, you know, what is my brain trying to tell me there?
I don’t know, but it was crazy.
I’m arguing with people in there.
I like, I wake up before there’s any kind of resolve.
4:23
And then throughout the course of the next few days, those are the dreams I have.
They’re not really nightmares.
They’re just more confusing and they’re the like you.
I can instead of it being third person like most, most of my dreams this time it’s like first person full on.
4:41
I can decide what I’m going to say to the people in the dream.
I think that I’m living in the dream for a portion of the dream.
I believe that I’m there and I can control what I do.
So like, for example, when I was in this dream with the cabin, I was in an argument with one of these kids, like I’m 44 years old.
5:00
I’m not arguing with a 20 year old about what the most fun thing to do is that weekend, you know?
So in those dreams I was able to depict and change what I wanted to.
5:15
So all of a sudden I’d open the door and the room would look a certain way.
Then all of a sudden a flash to something different.
It’s very unnerving.
It it creates a very like rocky sleep.
But the reason that you start having these dreams is because when you go on a tea break, all of a sudden the floodgates for regular production of hormones and chemicals in the brain happens.
5:39 – Understanding REM Rebound and Dream Manipulation
And you get flooded with all of the stuff that your brain has been trying to do, but you’ve been preventing it from doing, right.
So, for example, right, the human body is designed to take on cannabis and react to cannabis.
6:03
It’s, it’s adaptable to cannabis, right?
But the one thing the cannabis does is it shuts off your brain’s ability to produce a regulated amount of dopamine and serotonin so that it can function properly.
6:22
And the whole process of dreaming is that it’s, it’s your brains way to file and sort all the events, thoughts and interactions that happened through the day.
6:39
It’s also a way for your subconscious to say, hey, dummy, let me tell you something.
There’s some stuff that’s wrong, right?
So normally dreams are somewhat reflective of what’s going on through the day and what your psyche is trying to organize.
6:59
OK.
These dreams were not like that.
Dude.
My dream had no point.
I found these kids.
I thought that they were trapped in this, this, you know, sprawling estate or this, this sprawling cabin.
And turns out the kids didn’t want to leave and there was a babysitter and the parents had rented out.
7:20
This was the first time they’d rented out the cabin.
And they’d, you know, they’d left for their vacation for a couple days.
And there was supposed to be this babysitter lady watching them, but the babysitter had left.
And all of a sudden it goes to the babysitter is telling me why the babysitter is not there.
And then I wake up.
Like, how am I supposed to interpret that?
7:38
Because I could tell you right now I didn’t have any interactions with a ghost.
I have not been around any college kids, you know, like, I definitely would never be in a, in a very expensive cabin, at least not at this point.
7:53
I’d like to have one.
I’m just saying.
And there’s always this like underlying Rob Zombie level of fear, like something crazy is about to happen.
Like a clown’s going to hop out of the closet and hack my head off, you know what I mean?
So that was one of the dreams that I had.
8:10
And that one was I think the first one, which actually ended up happening on like day 11.
And instead of having to resolve, because most dreams I find don’t really have a resolve, right?
You just kind of do the thing and then you do it.
8:25
And then you wake up and you’re like, whoa, that was that was messed up, dude.
Like what, what’s the problem here?
What’s going on?
You know, you just feel disoriented.
And then for the next three days, I ended up having like, weirder and progressively weirder dreams that literally made no sense.
8:42
So I started to get freaked out because I’m like, every time I close my freaking eyes, I think I’m going to end up in a Freddy Krueger state of mind.
Like I’m going to wake up dead with fingers stuck in me later, you know, I don’t want that to happen.
And then on top of that there I’m a big believer that in dreams you should pay attention to them because they’re trying to tell you something.
9:04
They’re trying to help you work something out right mentally that you’re not getting over.
I used to have a reoccurring zombie dream and it literally went on for like years.
For like 3 years it would reoccur, not all year, but like I’d get it a few times a month and it would progressively get longer and longer until events in my life changed and I made a very drastic life change.
9:30
All of a sudden it stopped because I learned from that dream.
What it was really trying to tell me was that I had to let go of control.
I was trying to control too much and there’s a lot of stuff that you can’t control.
Well, these dreams about being with like college kids and and in in on vacation with them makes no sense to me because like I’m not hanging out with I’m too old for that shit.
9:50
You know what happened?
If I approached a group of college kids and was like, hey, you want to hang out?
They would literally laugh at me and be like, OK, well, guy, get the fuck out of here.
Like, who are we kidding here?
So why is my brain being like, do I miss college?
Because I don’t think I do.
I don’t really miss it.
But yeah, the other problem with having these dreams is that you end up not realizing they’re a dream.
10:17
So there’s a certain point of time where shit starts to hit the fan and you’re panicking because you’re like, I don’t know what’s about to happen here.
And then all of a sudden, like I said, you wake up and you’re just like, what just happened?
You feel uneasy, all that stuff.
10:32
But how are you supposed to organize your dreams and pay attention to them and learn what it is that your subconscious is trying to tell you if there’s a whole bunch of events that don’t make any sense?
I had to go through online symbolism books, dream symbolism like re articles to figure out what each thing did.
10:55
I suggest you do it because if you have reoccurring dreams they might be trying to tell you something and you should probably try and learn something and then that way it takes away some of the anxiety from it too.
But my initial point was, if you’re going to take a tea break, you have to be aware that you are about to have some very vivid nightmares.
11:15
If you don’t like clowns, clowns are coming, baby.
They’re going to come get you.
OK?
If you don’t like dogs and animals or whatever, that’s coming to get you, if you have a fear of drowning or spiders, guess what’s coming to get you?
That’s right, the lake and the spider.
OK?
So don’t be surprised when you start having these outlandishly crazy dreams when you’re trying to understand why you’re having these crazy dreams.
11:40
It’s a little bit it’s actually more simple than trying to figure out the the dream itself.
So I looked up a bunch of articles on why this happens, like what happens in your brain when you quit weed cold Turkey and you start experiencing these like very surreal, very vivid dreams.
11:59
OK, well, based on what is this fhe health?
It’s a rehab, I believe, that basically studies withdrawal symptoms of different types of substances.
And they’ve done some study on how marijuana affects the brain.
12:18 – The Science: How THC Infiltrates Cannabinoid Receptors
So if you want to check out this article, I’m just going to read you how this affects the brain, but it’s at fherehab.com.
OK?
Or you could just look up how marijuana affects the brain.
I believe that there’s neuroscientists involved as well with partnerships.
Anyway, the point is, this is what actually happens.
This is from fhehealth.com.
So the reason why the brain has has receptors designed specifically for marijuana chemicals is that the brain actually produces cannabinoid substances similar to pot psychoactive ingredients.
13:00
Cannabinoids are naturally made in the cortex, an area of the brain that guides movement, process thoughts and emotions, and interpret sensory information.
Anandamide is an important endogenous cannabinoid that functions as a neurotransmitter in the brain.
13:20
Anandamide facilitates chemical messaging among neurons and the central nervous system.
Sorry, let me do that one again.
Anandamide facilitates chemical messaging among neurons and the central nervous system nerve cells.
Because marijuana is primarily psychoactive chemical, THC is so comparable molecularly to anandamide and other cannabinoids.
13:44
THC is easily infiltrates and activate activates cannabinoid receptors.
OK, so disruption of the normal cannabinoid receptor activity causes the mental and physical effects of a pot high.
In addition, smoking pot increases the level of dopamine and serotonin, 2 neurotransmitters implicated in sleep, mood and pleasure.
14:09
The brains of daily marijuana smokers eventually develop a tolerance to excess excessive serotonin and dopamine levels, which forces the the Bourdain the brain to reduce its natural release of these two chemicals.
14:25
Consequently, having intense dreams after quitting weed could be due to a lack of serotonin and dopamine in the brain.
So you’re overdoing it.
That’s really what’s happening.
You’re cutting off these receptors or you’re flooding these receptors with an excessive amount that they stop production.
14:42
They get fat and lazy.
It’s like, it’s kind of like feeding, you know, a fat guy cake.
As soon as he gets an excessive amount of cake, he’s not getting off the couch, right?
Well, that’s what’s happening to these receptors in your brain.
You’re feeding it on a daily, whatever amount of marijuana you feed it.
14:59
So they’re over satisfied and they’ve got like, you know, the Turkey sleeps.
What’s it called?
I forget, but you basically, you know, after you eat Turkey, you get a little nap in.
Well, that’s what’s happening with this.
And so those receptors have become super lazy and they don’t do anything anymore.
15:16
And when they’re and then it takes roughly I don’t know for me, I found that it took within well, it took ten days to have the dreams, but I think that’s because I was away.
So I was mentally stimulated in other, you know, forms.
So it made it a little easier to not smoke weed because let’s be honest, a lot of people will go through withdrawal symptoms from weed, right.
15:40
Well, that makes trying to take a tea break that much harder because a lot of people get very irritable.
Some people are using it for sleep, like specifically to go to sleep.
Now with the, if you’re using it for sleep, the reason that you’re not having any dreams is because again, you’re overloading those receptors.
16:01
So you never actually hit that R.E.M. state cycle.
So you don’t actually have those dreams.
You might actually, that’s a lie.
You might end up having dreams, but you won’t remember them, and you also may feel like you get a better rested sleep and you may get a little more sleep when you smoke weed, but there are some lingering effects that you don’t notice over time.
16:20
So the next day, sure you’re not hungover and you’re not freaking out or you’re not hungover and you’re not, you’re not noticeably dragging ass, but inside you sort of feel like a little to the left.
16:36
Think about when you first used to smoke weed, right?
You smoked weed and the next day you were kind of off a little for the next day or two because you were your body was just getting introduced to it.
Now 20-30 years later, you’re smoking weed and your body’s just gotten used to it.
16:52
So you don’t actually feel what the difference is the next day.
So even though you don’t have a hangover, you’re a little more rest rested.
Your brain is definitely a little more sluggish because all these receptors are, are like, it’s like they got home from a rave, you know?
17:09
And they’re just like, OK, make it stop for a bit.
And then you get like 9 hours in the day where you’re like, OK, I’m good.
And the receptors have time to rejuvenate.
And then the next thing you know, it’s not one O clock at night and they’re all like, OK, but I slept all day, we’re good.
Let’s now hit me up because I can’t get my dopamine fixed.
17:26
That’s basically what I think kind of happens or that’s the way that I would depict it as I’m explaining it because that seems to, you have to visualize it sometimes I do.
So a lot of a lot of users when they stop cold Turkey, they’re going to go, they’re going to have some what they call withdrawal symptoms.
17:45 – Managing Cannabis Withdrawal Symptoms vs. Everyday Life
Now, I have a little disagreement with calling this stuff withdrawal symptoms because like, listen to this.
This is what withdrawal symptoms are OK?
Irritability and anger, aggression, lack of appetite, anxiety and nervousness, depression, insomnia and disturbing dreams, vivid dreams, nightmares that make you feel like you’re actually going to die there, you know?
18:11
But other than the disturbing dreams, insomnia and depression, OK, the irritability and anger, aggression, lack of appetite, anxiety and nervousness, isn’t that just like everyday life?
Like, like, don’t, don’t most people just go through life trying to manage that anyway, sober?
18:31
So like, as potheads, does that make us a little weaker?
Because those aren’t really symptoms.
Those are just momentary emotions you know, that you have to relearn to manage because you’ve been managing it with the ganja for way too long.
18:47
And now your brain’s all, I don’t know what to do, man.
And now your brain’s got to sort itself out.
And that takes a few days.
I noticed that within about 3 days I kind of hit back to my baseline where not having weed I stopped.
19:05
I gradually slowly stopped worrying about having weed.
Now at first I was a little panicked because I did like I did smoke it before bed because I felt like I got a better rest.
Here’s the thing when I was on vacation, yes we were doing more too.
So I was more tired at the end of the day and we were in the sun a lot.
19:21
But one of the things was I didn’t have a problem sleeping and it wasn’t like I switched weed for booze.
I just, I just didn’t have weed and then some nights I had like 4 cappuccinos a day or espressos, cappuccinos, cappuccinos.
19:39
I had four cappuccinos a day.
Dude.
I was like wired.
I don’t have a cappuccino at 3:00 in the afternoon.
Still go to bed at like 10.
OK, so don’t tell me you can’t sleep because quite honestly, you can’t sleep.
You just, I think that a lot of people when they get into the tea break mode, right, they are just very worried about not having weed.
20:02
I think that you have a mental connection to that weed and your your your mental connection is making you think that you need it.
Some people get a physical dependency.
I understand that.
I’m not trying to diminish it.
I’m just saying that I think most of that part of it is mental because think about it this way.
20:22
Weed is legal in Canada.
If you take a break, there’s going to be more.
There used to be a time when it wasn’t going to be that way.
Like there was no chance in hell that you were going to get, you know, more weed if you took a tea break because who knows?
People could crack down on it.
Your dealer could go bust.
20:38
Like he could take off and be like, I’m not selling weight anymore and you’re out.
You know, that’s not the case.
You can literally go to any, almost any corner store in Canada and pick up some weed.
Like there’s an abundance, dude.
You can always find some.
So you just have to kind of tell yourself that like, hey, it’s OK, the weed’s not going anywhere.
20:57
So if I take a 10 day break, I’ll just go get weed later, you know?
But too many people, too many people get caught up in in the worry of having weed or not having weed, sorry, or running out of weed or whatever.
21:14
So I think that that plays into it.
But I think that’s a mental thing.
I don’t think that’s a physical addiction thing.
I think that some people want to use say that it’s a mental or sorry, a physical addiction thing when realistically it’s not.
You just kind of got to find other things that occupy your time and your focus, you know?
21:31
But yeah, if you were wondering what was going to happen if you quit weed cold Turkey and you were trying to prepare for like a 10 day excursion on the on the Tea Break express and try to reset your reset your baseline, which I think is a good idea.
21:48
As a guy who smoked, who has smoked weed consistently every day for like fuck over 20 years, no, 20 years, about 20 years, I would say that one of the best things I could rediscover is taking a tea break, even though it was inadvertent.
Over the last little while, I’ve slowly been smoking less and less in terms of every day.
22:10
So now I’ll go a couple days between smoke sessions, right?
And then if I do this podcast, I’ll smoke a little more while I’m on there.
But overall, I’ve kind of mitigated the amount of weed that I’m smoking on an overtly regular basis just because I’m old and it’s probably time to settle it down a bit, you know?
22:42
But I highly recommend it because I feel like as weed smokers, we just get so norm with the whole being high and thinking that the high is helping us with all our mental ailments and all that fun stuff.
I think that we forget that we at one point in life didn’t always need this to to, to, you know, maintain.
23:01
And as a recreational user, I’ll say that as a recreational user, yeah, we didn’t.
We don’t really, we put too much emphasis on trying to use weed to maintain.
So I think it’s a good idea that sometimes we take a tea break maybe every, you know, couple months or so for a couple weeks just to kind of get back to basics, get back to the baseline of, of what it was like.
23:24
Because don’t you notice now that you like, you don’t giggle?
There’s really no giggle factor anymore unless you find some like really crazy strain.
Back in the day when you first started smoking it, it was almost like every time you hit the joint, you couldn’t stop giggling.
When you take a tea break for two weeks or longer, you start to hit that baseline again where if you smoke a couple things, you say some dumb shit and you giggle a lot.
23:45
OK, so if you’re looking for the giggle, take a tea break.
If you find that you’re basically living in the haze and you’re and you just you kind of feel off, maybe take a tea break.
That might be time.
But because of the receptors in your brain regarding dopamine and serotonin, if you take that tea break and you have an angry brain, your angry brain is going to scare the shit out of you.
24:10
OK, So be aware of that.
If you have like a, a brain like mine that’s a little off to the left, sometime one night you might get scared.
The next night you might be chasing, chased by a giant gummy bear.
You might be getting, you know, eaten by like a a sloth.
24:26
I don’t know.
But I do know that when you’re in that dreamscape, it’s going to be very vivid.
You’re going to feel like you can interact with it.
You’re going to feel like you can’t get away.
OK?
Don’t be terrified.
It’s not the end of the world.
It will be all right.
24:42
You will wake up.
That’s all I have to say about that.
OK, So, yeah, just take a tea break every now and then.
Get yourself back to baseline.
Because then once you get to baseline, let me tell you, it takes a it takes a few days, but you don’t need to smoke as much.
So like, you can actually conserve weed.
24:59
And if you don’t overdo it, like when I got back from my vacation, I had a bong hit and I filled the bowl wasn’t it’s one of those small little, you know, like funnel style bowls.
So I put a little in there, I lit it, I made sure it was all burning.
I took the hit.
25:14
It’s not a big bong, it’s a little bong.
So it’s just like A1 little one hitter.
I took that hit.
I was like, oh, that’s delicious.
I really like that.
So I hit it again.
I didn’t even pack repack the bowl.
I just smoked a red like a bit more of the bowl and after I took that hit, maybe about 45 minutes later, I was staring off into space like I was floating through the cosmos.
25:36
Dude, my brain was out there.
It was gone.
Like I had no thoughts.
OK, so like if you to and that’s not even probably a gram.
It was probably like half gram and I was just boom gone.
And the weed was not overly strong.
It was sort of middle of the road weed.
25:52
So a tea break can do a lot of things for you.
It can reset your baseline.
It helps your brain and your mind allow the filing and and organization of the memories from the day and the things that your subconscious is worrying is worrying about or, or thinking about and trying to resolve in your life.
26:26
So let that happen because weed, as we all know, just keeps asking questions about why this is this and why do we feel like this and why do I like that?
You know, there’s no end result with weed.
You might go back, go down a thought path and be like, oh, that’s crazy.
26:41
But the weed is always asking why, Why do I get along with it?
Why do I accept it?
Why there’s no real definitive.
Like, I do this now because as soon as you think that when you’re smoking, the weed goes, yeah, but what about this?
So I think you need the shut off of the weed sometimes so that your brain can then reorganize all of its conscious and subconscious thoughts so that it can, you know, make you a relatively regular member of society.
27:09
Because you don’t necessarily realize how far off the path you are until you get off the path.
And then you’re like, whoa, what happened there?
Dude, You went way left.
So take a tea break.
Expect crazy visions and dreams.
Enjoy them.
27:26
Like, I mean, realistically, it’s a new experience, right?
So just enjoy them because it’s your, your it’s your psyche coming back to you like a like a kid and be like, hey, come here and look at me, you know?
Product Profile: Galactic Runts (Tribal)
Feature
Details
Product Type
Live Resin Vape Cartridge
Strain Type
Indica
THC Potency
76.8%
Terpene %
8.5%
Top Terpenes
Limonene, Caryophyllene, Linalool
Flavor Profile
Mixed Berry, Pine, “Gummy Bears”
Effect
Thoughtful, Body Buzz, Giggles, Sleep Aid
27:43 – Sesh Review: Tribal Galactic Runts Live Resin Vape
So do that.
Yeah.
So I just wanted to let you know that was the case.
And for this sesh, I’ve been smoking Tribal’s Galactic Runts vape cart.
It’s an indica, it’s 76%, it’s a live resin.
It’s really tasty.
28:02
If you’re looking for something that’ll make you thoughtful and something that will make you feel like you’re, you know, floating in space, this is a good one.
28:19
It’s a good body buzz.
It gives you.
If this one actually gives you a bit of the giggles you feel a little in your eyes, it’s not overwhelming.
You’re not going to pass out.
You’re not going to fall over.
It will help you go to sleep.
28:35
So if you’re taking a tea break, obviously don’t smoke this.
It’s tasty.
What does it taste like?
It’s hard to say.
Like a mixed Berry pack of like Motts, gummy bears that kids take to school and the little yellow packages, you know what I’m saying?
28:53
Tastes kind of like that.
Tastes a little fruity, like a Berry, you know, kind of like a little Piney flavor in there.
So let’s see, Does it tell me what the terps are?
Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn’t.
29:14
OK, so the terp profile is 8 point.
Five.
No, Yeah. 8.5% You got limonene, carophylline and linalool as the top three terps.
It’s 76.8%.
THC so one.
29:31
Of the things about live resin is that live resin is always a little bit.
It’s lower in percentage, but it is it’s a little stronger in the high because it’s more natural.
A distillate is, is more manufactured.
29:48
It’s it’s a different form of extraction, whereas I feel like live resin is a little bit more natural.
It stays to.
It’s like original.
It stays more true to its original product.
But this one is.
30:04
Really good.
I enjoy it because it’s a it’s an indica that gives you a little fun before it makes you have a little nap.
You know what I’m saying?
It’s a good time.
It’s a good one to smoke as a treat after you’ve created after you’ve completed your tea break.
30:25
Yeah.
So if you’re.
Going to get something for tribal.
They’re a little more expensive because they’re live resin, but they’re totally worth it.
They last a little longer.
The high itself lasts a little longer.
The example is if you are smoking a distillate, let’s say you get high for like 45 minutes to an hour.
30:42
This high, you could potentially feel the effects for like an hour and a half, two hours kind of thing.
If it’s really good, it’ll last longer than that.
But generally that’s where you know, if you’re, if you’re still feeling it a little bit two hours later, that’s a good solid cart.
It’s kind of like diamonds.
30:58
Diamonds are a rush of high and then they sort of like teeter out after a bit.
Live resin like these ones, I feel like what they do is they just continue the high and ride it right out.
It’s kind of a nice little, it’s like a blanket of high that just stays, keeps you all cozy and happy, you know, And you don’t have to re up your dopamine and serotonin levels as often as you do with some of the other stuff.
31:28
So if you’re going.
To get a new cart or you’re looking for something that’s got some flavor and a really wicked high, Definitely go for the tribal galactic runts if you can find it.
Again, it’s an indica, so if you don’t like indicas, don’t get it because you will be more relaxed, your brains a little more clear, but your body’s definitely more.
31:45
Oh, I could take a nap right now.
Yeah, those are my thoughts off the stem for this week.
I hope you enjoyed the sesh.
Thank you for joining me, Justin Barone, your friendly neighborhood pothead on Thoughts off the stem on Spotify, Google Podcast, Apple Podcast, iTunes Anchor, YouTube Anchors Gone YouTube Pod Chaser, Good pods, Pandora, pod bean, wherever you get a podcast, it’s out there, baby.
32:16
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Tell me what you don’t like.
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32:36
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Wherever you’re watching this subscribe, follow it man.
Let me know what you think.
I really want some feedback here.
Also, we can get more of a dialogue going on if you tell me what you want to hear, because then I can do a better job of making things that you might want to know about, even if it’s ridiculous.
32:54
You’ve seen if you are a lot, if you’re a follower that I do ridiculous shit doesn’t matter.
There’s no topic off off the table.
Whatever you have on your mind, let me know, yeah.
And check out Talks 420.com for a bunch of different things like episode lists, links, blog posts.
33:15
Weed facts, some crazy other just.
Daily People facts.
That’s pretty much it, yeah.
So I hope you had a good time, hope you enjoyed the sesh.
And until next time.
Keep.
33:36
Your lids low baby.
At the end of the day, understanding the connection between weed and vivid dreams is the best way to handle the intensity of a tolerance break. While the ‘REM Rebound’ might feel like a trip through a Freddy Krueger movie, it’s actually a sign that your brain is resetting and finding its baseline again. Whether you’re chasing the ‘giggle factor’ or just clearing out the mental haze, taking a tea break is a powerful tool for any enthusiast. Don’t let the wild dreams keep you from the reset you need—just keep your lids low, stay thoughtful, and I’ll see you in the next sesh.
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Charlie Kirk Hypocrisy: The Contradictions You Can’t Ignore
Welcome to Thoughts Off The Stem. In this sesh, I’m digging into the Charlie Kirk debate that’s been taking over social media lately. I didn’t know much about the guy until recently, but the implications of the Charlie Kirk debate for free speech and political polarization are something we need to talk about.
Timestamp
Segment Title
Key Discussion Points
0:06
The Evolution of the Debate
Moving from sports talk (Jordan vs. LeBron) to political machinery.
1:49
Emotional Investment
Why politics and religion create deep identity-based polarization.
2:49
Free Speech vs. Tactics
Analyzing “Prove Me Wrong” culture and the risk of public speaking.
5:45
Ethics of “Clip Farming”
How rage-bait and selective editing fuel social media conflict.
15:06
The Future of Discourse
Is freedom of speech at risk? The danger of celebrating a person’s demise.
24:10
Red Bulls Strain Review
Lab stats: 26.4% THC, Terpene profile, and body-high effects.
29:46
Final Sesh Thoughts
Finding the “Middle Spot” and achieving social unity.
0:06 – The Evolution of the Charlie Kirk Debate
Welcome the thoughts off the stem.
Thank you for joining me Justin Baroni on this session.
That’s great We’re going to have a nice little session.
We’re going to have a discussion.
We’re going to talk about the Charlie Kirk situation because I didn’t know very much about this guy.
The only instance that I’d had that I I’d actively engaged in watching before the events of last week was him debating college students on the merit of Michael Jordan being the GOAT versus LeBron James being the GOAT.
0:34
All of a sudden now he’s this political dude.
Now I get he’s been doing this for a while.
I don’t know how he made the jump from discussing Michael Jordan into all of a sudden this like ginormous political machine, essentially the Michael Jordan versus LeBron, LeBron debate.
0:50
Like there’s no real right and wrong.
There’s also no real consequence to that.
Like you’ll have fans that’ll come up to you and talk shit or tell you this or that or whatever they think.
But on the political landscape, all of a sudden you have like an emotion, a real viable emotion that’s attached to potentially somebody’s life.
1:10
I’m not attached to the fact that I think Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player of all time.
And you tell me that LeBron is.
I’m not emotionally invested or nor do I like identify my life isn’t the I don’t identify my personality as being that.
1:26
Whereas I think that with politics and religion, you have a lot of people that emotionally invest themselves and identify as being that thing.
It’s seated in a moral belief of conduct and you start applying that moral belief of conduct into whatever your political leaning is.
1:49 – From Basketball Debates to the Political Charlie Kirk Debate
And then on, once you’re invested in the politics of that, you end up turning around and trying to get your voice heard.
And as you start to find that it’s harder and harder to get your voice heard, you start to maybe spin some facts and spin some things that are more in your favor that that get attention, right.
2:12
So what I, what I mean by that, what I’m trying to say by that is that a big, a big portion of Charlie Kirk’s debates we’re fueled by the understanding that he wanted somebody to prove him wrong.
2:30
So he wanted to have an open discourse about the state of America and why the conservative side of things is a stronger belief or an, a stronger identity for the country than the liberal belief, right.
2:49 – Freedom of Speech and Tactics in the Charlie Kirk Debate
I could be wrong, but I’m pretty sure that’s it.
And then that fuels this concept that I’m standing up for freedom of speech, right?
But the undertones of your freedom of speech are based in religion where a lot of people get invested to the point where it’s black and white.
3:08
There’s no, there’s no Gray area of understanding.
There’s I believe it’s this way and This is why it should be this way.
And that’s it.
But his basis was proved me wrong and I didn’t see a lot of instances where it seemed that the people that he debated were were actually like when, when and if they proved him wrong.
3:30
It didn’t seem to resonate that that was the case.
The only, the only real videos that I saw of him, I saw of him admitting a defeat in the debate was when he was talking to a deaf gentleman about the fact about some things that he had said about deaf people.
3:51
And in that case, at the end, he, he basically said, you know what?
You’re, you’re right.
I was wrong.
I shouldn’t have done that.
But that’s about a, a personal choice of words and A and a mis education on what a certain section of society is expecting, right, In terms of in terms of being integrated into the regular function of society.
4:16
So with him, if he offended somebody, he would apologize.
I don’t think that he was a racist.
I don’t really think that he was a Nazi.
I don’t think any of that craziness.
I think that that’s a narrative that people just want to blanket to people when they say something that they don’t necessarily agree with.
4:35
I do think that he posed some things that really make him look bad, but everybody does.
If you’re in the public that often, you’re eventually going to say something that not gets taken out of context, but you’re going to say something that you believe that isn’t well received, right.
4:54
So there’s a few snippets of things that he said where you’re like, well, saying it like that, I can see why people would get this impression.
But again, he’s battling an argument that is that started off as being being bred out of like a pushy kind of accept me for me attitude.
5:15
And he was trying to bring back essentially a way to be heard or an ideology that was being squashed by the louder side of things.
So he just amplified and got louder and louder and louder to the point where I think that in his attempt at trying to debate this and change an opinion, he ended up taking on the tactics that that he complained about the other side taking.
5:45 – Ethics and Tactics Within the Charlie Kirk Debate
So for example, he there was a there was a lot of complaint about how his opposition would fear monger.
They would rage bait and they would create, they would clip farm from events and rallies that they had to show their perspective only.
6:05
But I but the problem is, is that anything that I saw with him, like I had to hunt down clips that were neutral that showed both sides of the point and then allowed both sides of the point to be heard and then showed what the actual outcome was.
6:25
And I think that he started to do what his opponents do and he started to do the same thing.
He started to upload clips that were literally designed to spark emotion to polarize people.
And he would like, I think that the setting of going to a university or college campus to bait to debate college kids is is the like definition of click far or yeah, click farming or clip farming.
6:55
Sorry.
Because as an older person that has more life experience going into an environment like that, you can 1 you put yourself in a position to control the environment.
You put yourself in a position to control the discussion and you put yourself in a position to be able to use tools like verbal traps and, and, and set up directions for the way that you want to take the discussion, right.
7:22
Because when you’re going into something like that, people aren’t necessarily prepared, at least not in the beginning.
They weren’t necessarily prepared to debate them because they hadn’t sat there thinking about it.
But that was his whole purpose for being there.
So he was already coming in with this kind of like, I’m higher, I’m more prepared than you, right?
7:41
And I don’t think that the argument that he didn’t go to college has any weight because he seemed like a relatively thoughtful and intelligent person, at least he seemed to.
He seemed to really think about and understand the concepts that he was talking about.
But he definitely did from time to time cherry pick information to get his point across because there were a few instances where fact checkers and online poll systems, they basically debunked some of the things that he said.
8:13
And within his own clips, you could see that the way that his clips were pointed were definitely to show him in the majority of the time winning the debate, which would obviously gain attention for the ’cause that he’s speaking about, which would all which would ultimately, you know, take that rhetoric and try to get the younger generation to come to his side.
8:36
Which to be honest, like that’s the goal of, of any belief system is to try and get the majority of the population and the younger generation to follow that system so that it becomes prevalent and predominant as you get older.
Right.
And then the, then the people that work in that, that, that work and function in society adopt those rules, morals and mannerisms or whatever.
8:57
And they, that becomes the normal way of life, right?
So I don’t really fault him for doing anything like that.
What I fault him for is putting himself in an environment where he’s more likely than not to be debating somebody that’s less equipped to deal with the conversation that you’re having.
9:22
You can’t have limited life experience and talk about all these political, religious and moral concepts and expect an educated, thoughtful, well understood reception to it, right?
9:43
Or take on it with somebody that’s even four years into college.
You have to get out of college and get into the real world and start operating within the real world to really understand what and how, like how things and what things work well, right?
9:59
And I’m not saying 1 ideology is better than another because there’s some things that I agreed with them on and there’s other things that I definitely didn’t agree with them on.
So I really had this conflict when I was thinking about it because like, I don’t think that when you have, when you have a scenario like this, the hate and the, and the response to the situation that happened with him was disgusting at first.
10:27 – The Consequences of Polarization in the Charlie Kirk Debate
You should never celebrate somebody’s demise based on their words.
There’s no, there’s no, there’s no room in life for having someone’s demise, like having someone’s demise be the result of you disagreeing with their opinion, right?
10:46
Like, I, I feel like we should all be able to agree on that.
So whether you agreed with the guy’s concepts, morals, ideas, ideology, whatever, there’s no reason that this should have happened.
The only reason that this happens is that you’re that potentially the person is so emotionally invested in a different way of thinking that they just can’t take it anymore and they snap.
11:07
That’s what I think.
And as far as something like this happening, I feel like anytime you’re a public speaker, if you are polarizing a whole society and and, and, and like intentionally trying to do so because I intentionally that’s what he’s doing.
11:27
He’s he’s maybe not trying to not really trying to start a fight about it, but he has to recognize at some point that what he’s doing is, and I’m not talking to Charlie Kirk, I’m talking to anybody that takes a stance on one side or the other.
That person, he or she has to understand that if they’re polarizing a large society, the level of danger attached to that and being in public and discussing your views in publics in public becomes a, a big problem, like a, a predominant issue.
12:07
It’s something that you need to be prepared for, right?
Because you, you can’t expect everybody just to be like, OK, because everybody’s not like that, Pete.
There’s all kinds of different people out there that are taking on this information.
And unfortunately, in a lot of in a lot of those environments, you’re not necessarily getting, you know, the cream of the crop of society.
12:29
You’re getting people that want to argue, that want to fight, that are emotionally invested in the fight.
So their emotion rises as their opinion rises.
As your answers come up there, there’s there’s a triggering effect that that puts you in a greater sense or a greater likelihood of danger and direct danger and ultimate imminent danger.
12:53
I think so.
I think that a part of what happened was when he first started doing his debates, he, he, he was kind of easy about it.
But I think that as he rose in the political landscape, he contributed to the potential for more and more danger because he started to adapt a lot of the tactics that he was complaining about from the other side, which ultimately, in my opinion, just fires off an emotional response, right?
13:27
And as we’ve seen time and time again, the more emotional people are and the more emotionally invested in these things people are, the more they become willing to go to extremes to define or win their point, right?
13:51
So I think it’s horrible that a person of his stature could have this happen.
I think that it’s deplorable that people would think that it’s acceptable to celebrate something like that.
I think that it’s disgusting that that people are still trading clips on, oh, he was this.
14:10
They’re still trying to prove it online.
All this is going to do ultimately is create potentially create a larger divide between the two sides.
And I think that this could really have a like a profound effect on how things happen going forward.
14:35
Like there’s a, there’s a good chance that a lot of civil unrest over time is going to come from this because people on both sides aren’t just going to go, oh, well, this happened.
I mean, maybe, maybe we’ll luck out and people will see the, the major issue with having something like this happen and the, the major concerns of, of what this, what the implications mean when something like this happens.
15:06 – Freedom of Speech and the Charlie Kirk Debate Outcome
Because it’s not just about the people involved or the, or the sides that, you know, brought us to this point.
It’s also about the understanding of free speech.
And as much as I don’t think that anybody should ever be, like I said, being in danger for giving their opinion right now in the landscape of life that is act is a is a serious concern.
15:38
Like you should be worried now that you can’t say what you think or what you want because something bad could happen to you.
And on one side, I think this makes people more willing to do certain things because they start seeing, they start seeing actions like this happen and maybe they start thinking, well, yeah, I’m going to change something too.
16:04
But then on the other side, there’s the other part of what we have to get back at these guys, which could cause more a more of an uproar and more of a more of a potentially violent engagement back and forth, right, And an escalation of violence and engagement.
16:23
So I think that really everybody should just kind of take a step back, OK, and think about what the implications of this are and forget about what side you’re on, but understand that this has a real huge, like, stamp on it.
16:44 –Is Freedom of Speech at Risk?
That is freedom of speech is at risk right now because if this is how it goes, people could clam up, stop talking, and then the then the conversation dies.
But I think that we should also highlight the fact that what led to the to these events and these kinds of things happening is the over amplifying of emotion through social media, through all, any type of media really.
17:12
Because think about it.
The thing that gets you to pay attention to something is generally some kind of adverse event.
Something bad happens, then something good happens or something good happens, then something bad.
Like there’s, there’s controversy in everything that we watch now, right?
17:27
So really the only way to get eyes on anything or or ears on anything that you want to bring to the forefront of discussion is it has to be done in a way that is almost guaranteed to cause or manipulate some kind of frustration, right.
17:47
And then the next thing you know, instead of being able to have a debate about it and actually talk civilly and go back and forth on merits and ideas and have a have an open dialogue about it.
You have this very black and white my points better than your point like forum of focus to just go back and forth, right?
18:06
And then within that, because you’re emotionally attached to these ideas, the emotion grows, grows and grows and grows until boom, it just explodes.
And I think that’s what we should be more aware about now.
18:22
I think that our awareness needs to start needs to focus on the on the concept of communication and how we communicate, what we communicate and the way that we construct our delivery of information on both sides.
18:44
Because all this is doing is creating a boiling point of violence.
And that’s it.
That’s my opinion.
That’s what I think.
I know you’re thinking like, Oh yeah, pothead could really tell me about told me, told me about Charlie Kirk.
18:59
Listen dude, we are some of the most political minded or at least aware people on the planet because a lot of stoners, potheads, weed smokers are advocates for change and they always want to find a way to make things more inclusive, more peaceful, more unified.
19:25
So when you say to when, if you have the impression that somebody that smokes pot shouldn’t have an opinion on the political landscape of today, you’re ridiculous because see, there, I just did it.
I just did the same thing.
I just kind of like rage baited you a bit.
You, you’re not ridiculous.
19:42
OK, but but have but thinking like that is is a bad way to think.
Because if you haven’t smoked weed and you don’t understand what weed does, you don’t know that weed will help you think about different angles of all the different situations that you have in life.
20:04
You’ll reflect on it if you get interested, it motivates you to read and learn about it because one thing about pot is that it will make you feel insecure about the things that you don’t know, right?
And if you try to try to start having discussions about things that you don’t know, then the weed itself is going to be like, you don’t know what you’re talking about.
20:22
Shut up.
That’s why it’s taking me like 3, three tries to do this podcast because I’m not trying to talk about Charlie Kirk, the man, because it’s unfortunate what happened to him and it’s never should have happened.
And and it’s actually no matter what his beliefs are, that should never happen to somebody.
20:39
So we can’t condemn a person.
We can’t condemn people for thinking differently than us.
We have to think, we have to allow the the concept of change to take hold in our lives.
20:57
And potheads are really good at doing that because a lot of us are not just the oh, I’m student on the coach Stoner dude that everybody thinks we are.
We’re highly motivated individuals that want to learn about life and how to make life a peaceful coexistence.
21:13
OK.
And we’re very aware what we’re watching, what we’re looking at, and we’re very good at, like I said, reflecting on the values, the morals, the conversation that happens in front of us.
21:32
Because I think that the majority of potheads or stoners don’t think I know everything about everything.
They think I want to learn more about everything.
That’s what I think gives potheads the right to be able to or stoners, whatever you prefer to be called.
21:49
Weed guy.
OK, enthusiasts.
I think that’s what gives us the right to be able to have an opinion on the discussion, because I think the discussion is not about the individuals.
I think the discussion is more about the actions of the individuals.
22:06
And the actions of the individuals are the really telling part of what the disruptor is that’s happening right now.
Does that make sense?
Because right now the disruptor is the fact that neither side can have a debate without emotionally being vested to the point where at at some point you’re going to scream and yell at the person and it’s going to result in name calling versus actually defining what any kind of statistic is or really trying to understand what it is that we’re talking about.
22:41
Sometimes we just get caught up in wanting to explain the point and wanting to be right.
And I think that on both sides, that’s what happened here.
Everyone wants to be right, but instead I think that everybody needs to take a fucking breath and take a set us, take a, take a seat for a minute and just reflect on what this really means for freedom of speech and for communication in general.
23:12 – Why the Charlie Kirk Debate Highlights Social Polarization
We can’t get to the point that we’re shooting people because they don’t believe the things that you believe.
That’s not right.
No matter who it is and what they’re saying.
If they’re not physically harming people or preventing someone else living the way of the way of life that they choose to live, then that person should be allowed to speak and, and, and say their piece without having to worry about what their fate’s going to be.
23:49
That’s my take on the Charlie Kirk thing.
I think it’s very unfortunate.
It really sucks.
And because that was going to be such a heavy episode session, so I decided that I was going to smoke a bit of an indica to keep myself calm and relaxed and try to be as thoughtful as possible.
24:09
So hopefully I was and hopefully you see what you see my point.
You can also tell me if you think I’m wrong, let me know leave a comment.
But to do to do this podcast to keep my energy level at a certain comfort, I decided I was going to smoke and did smoke.
Feature
Details
Strain Name
Red Bulls (by Ripe Flowers)
Genetics / Type
Heavy Indica
THC Potency
26.4%
Primary Terpenes
Beta-Caryophyllene, Limonene, Linalool
Flavor Profile
Earthy, Peppery, Heavy Mouth-feel
Best Used For
Post-workout, Social Anxiety, Deep Relaxation
24:30 – Sesh Review: Ripe Flowers Red Bulls Strain
That’s right, this sesh I smoked.
What’s it called?
Ripe flowers, Red Bulls.
Now, I thought this was going to be a sativa.
It’s not.
It’s an indica.
That’s why I decided to smoke it because I wanted to stay calm for this.
And so this is what it is.
24:46
It’s 1g joint or sorry, it was 1g of dried herb.
I put in a joint and it’s 25 point.
No, yeah, 2026.4% THC.
It’s got, it’s got, it doesn’t say what the percentage of terps it it, it is, but it’s top five terpenes are beta carophylline, alpha humaline, D limonene, linaluol, beta miercin.
25:19
Yeah, those are the five.
It’s good.
It’s kind of tasty.
It’s got like an earthier flavor.
It has like a hint of pepper.
It’s a good Hardy smoke.
25:35
It feels, it’s got good mouth feel.
It tastes a little more smoke like than flavorful.
So that’s why I say it tastes earthy ’cause you know how sometimes you get like an earthy smoke and it and it, it’s got like this underlying body where it feels like heavy in your mouth.
This feels heavy.
25:52
But oh, you know what it’s like.
It’s like a a light cigar where you get a little flavor.
But the no, Yeah, yeah.
About a light cigar.
The smoke’s a little heavier than a light cigar, but the flavour is like a light cigar.
That’s what I’m trying to say.
26:12
The effects are very calming.
I just feel relaxed all over.
I feel like if you did some sort of physical exercise and then came home and you just wanted to sit on the couch and zone out and watch TVI feel like I could flat back it and lay down on the couch and just zone out.
26:29
You know what I’m saying, after smoking this, it’s not really a head high.
It doesn’t really hit you in the head at all.
It’s all, it’s pretty much all body, which I think is why I was able to explain myself in this one because I, like I said, I tried this like four or five times and it didn’t work out as well as I thought it was.
26:50
It burns nice and slow.
The ash is Gray, so that’s nice.
It doesn’t really, I mean, I did cough, but it doesn’t really give you a bad cough.
It tastes like it should kind of OK.
But yeah, I would recommend it.
27:06
I’d recommend it if, because I don’t know what it cost, it was donated to the show.
So if it’s not an expensive half quarter, like if it costs you 25 to 30 bucks, then it’s a good pick.
27:24
If it costs you any more than that, I wouldn’t bother.
You could get better stuff, but for just having a laid back high, I don’t know how long it’ll last.
Hopefully a bit.
This one’s really nice.
It’d be good After workout high, after workout smoke.
Make sure that you don’t get any muscle cramps the next day.
27:44
Yeah, it’s got point O 7% CBD now about what, 3/4 of the way through this gram joint that I rolled of it and I feel like the taste is getting to me.
28:01
So I’d say if you’re going to smoke this, do like a half 1/2 gram.
You probably don’t need the whole gram.
It seems strong enough.
You feel a bit in your eyes, mostly in your eyes, your cheeks, and then your whole body’s just like, oh, I’m good, I’m just going to lay back here.
But your mind is you could be social on it.
28:20
It’s a good social relaxer.
So if you have social anxiety, this might be good for you, especially if you’re a little bit high, like tightly wound, this might bring you down a bit.
Could be good.
So I recommend it.
Yeah, that’s what I say.
I say check that out.
I say what happened to Charlie Kirk is it didn’t need to happen.
28:44
It’s very disappointing act that shows you the state of society right now.
And I think that it should be a it should be a, it should be a turning point in history to adjust how we’re doing some things because violence and and aggression are becoming too familiar.
29:13
I think we need more unity and I think that that’s what this incident should show us is that that’s what we need.
We need to unify.
We need to we got to find the common ground, the middle spot, the sweet spot, and we got to start, you know, interacting on that level because the way that we’re going right now is just dude, it’s it’s leaning to chaos.
29:46
But those are my thoughts off the stem for this week.
Hope you enjoyed the sesh.
Hope you come back next week.
Thank you for joining me, Justin Baroni, your friendly neighborhood pothead.
Yeah, come back next week on Spotify and Google.
Spotify, Google Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, iTunes, YouTube, Good pods, Pod Chaser, Pod Bean, Pandora.
30:14
Anywhere you get a podcast, really, it’s out there.
Check out tots420.com.
Oh, you know what I’m going to do so on tops420.com, I’m going to put up the I had a chat with ChatGPT about what I was trying to find out about Charlie Kirk.
30:34
So I’ll put that whole conversation up so you can read it because I think it was a fair discussion.
And I think that, well, you look at it and and you decide.
If you made it this far, let me know what you think of the episode.
And yeah, until next time, keep your lids low, baby.
The Charlie Kirk debate is about more than just one person; it’s a reflection of how we communicate as a society. While I explored the Charlie Kirk debate during this sesh, I hope we can move toward more unified, civil discourse.
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