Everything Is Fake: Your Reality Is For Sale

Justin Barone host of Thoughts Off The Stem investigates paid protests astroturfing the Manhattan Madam and Crowds on Demand with money flying in the background

Someone slid into my DMs last week and asked me to have a guest on the podcast.

Now I get approached from time to time and most of the time it’s pretty straightforward. But this one stopped me cold. Because the person reaching out was Kristin M. Davis — better known as the Manhattan Madam — and she wanted me to interview the CEO of a company called Crowds on Demand.

So I did what any self respecting pothead would do. I went down the rabbit hole.

What I found was way more interesting than any interview would have been. And honestly? Way more disturbing.


What Is Astroturfing and Why Should You Care?

Before we get into the Manhattan Madam and the fake protest guy, let’s talk about astroturfing — because if you don’t know what it is, you need to.

Astroturfing is the practice of manufacturing the appearance of grassroots public support where none actually exists. The name comes from AstroTurf — the fake grass — because that’s exactly what it is. Fake grass roots.

Paid protests and astroturfing go hand in hand and in 2026 the industry is booming. According to public reporting, Crowds on Demand saw a 400% surge in paid protest requests in 2025 alone. That’s not a niche service anymore. That’s an industry.

And somebody is buying it.

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Meet the Manhattan Madam: Kristin M. Davis

Let’s start with who reached out to me because this is where it gets immediately weird.

Kristin M. Davis — the Manhattan Madam — ran a high end prostitution ring in New York City that allegedly serviced some very prominent clients including Eliot Spitzer, Alex Rodriguez and David Beckham. She served time at Rikers Island, ran for Governor of New York in 2010, was contacted by Robert Mueller’s office in 2018 in connection with Russian election interference, and was later convicted for distributing drugs.

She has since founded Hope House to help women in need — and I’ll give her credit for that because second chances are real and people do change.

But now she runs a PR firm called Think Right PR that specializes in rebranding people and companies with — let’s call it complicated public histories. And she reached out to me to have Adam Swart, the CEO of Crowds on Demand, on my show to talk about the mechanics of fake protests and manufactured reality.

I’ll be honest. My first thought was — why would the Manhattan Madam be repping the fake protest guy?

My second thought was — actually that makes perfect sense.

Crowds on Demand: Your Reality Has a Price Tag

Here’s what Crowds on Demand actually is.

Adam Swart founded the company in 2012. It started with “celebrity experience” services — fake paparazzi, hired fans, that kind of thing. Over time it expanded into organized protests, political demonstrations, and publicity stunts using paid actors posing as members of the public.

In plain English — you can buy a crowd. Right now. Today.

ServiceWhat They SayWhat It Actually Is
Celebrity Arrival ServiceProfessional crowd for your eventHired fans to make you look important
Advocacy Group CreationWe create and staff advocacy groups with suitable leadershipInventing fake grassroots organizations from scratch with hired actors as “leaders”
Protest OrganizationAmplifying your message through demonstrationsPaid protesters starting at $39.99 per activist
Mergers & Acquisitions SupportShaping public company dealsManufacturing protests to tank a competitor’s stock price
Message AmplificationWhen other strategies have failedWhen the truth isn’t working — buy a fake consensus instead

A Washington Post columnist described receiving a marketing email from the company offering their “Celebrity Arrival Service” to politicians — promising to stuff events with paid actors to make candidates look popular.

John Oliver dedicated a segment on Last Week Tonight to them. They’ve been sued for alleged extortion. They’ve been accused of creating a fake Black Lives Matter organization in Dallas called Dallas Justice Now that sent letters urging wealthy white families not to send their kids to Ivy League universities. The same Republican marketing firm was also behind a pro-police group called Keep Dallas Safe.

Both sides. Same company. Same fake grass.

And demand is up 400%.

The Whistleblower Who Won’t Blow the Whistle

Here’s where it gets really rich.

Swart is now positioning himself as a whistleblower. He wants to come clean about the fake protest industry. Says he wants transparency. And to expose the manufactured outrage machine.

Except — he won’t name his clients. He won’t name his sources. And his company bio still openly boasts about creating fake advocacy groups from scratch.

Let me say that again. The guy who wants to blow the whistle on astroturfing still sells astroturfing.

Here’s a breakdown of what his own bio says versus what it actually means:

What His Bio SaysWhat It Actually Means
“We create advocacy groups and staff them with suitable leadership”We invent fake organizations and hire actors to pretend to be their leaders
“We shaped large public company mergers and acquisitions”We manufactured protests to pressure companies into deals
“We amplify messages when other strategies have failed”When the truth isn’t working we manufacture a fake consensus
“I want transparency in the protest industry”I want to be the regulated gatekeeper of the very deception I pioneered

When you’re whistleblowing you’re supposed to do it for the better of society — not for the better of your bank account.

He isn’t blowing the whistle because he grew a conscience. He’s blowing the whistle to become the “legitimate” face of an industry he built. It’s the same hustle with a press release attached.

The Inversion of Truth: Two Peas in a Very Shady Pod

Here’s what struck me most when I put these two together.

Davis uses her criminal past to create trust as an expert on corruption. Swart uses fake crowds to create the appearance of truth through manufactured consensus.

They are both selling the same thing — the idea that nothing is real, so you might as well buy their version of reality.

The PeopleKristin M. DavisAdam Swart
BackgroundManhattan Madam, convicted felon, Mueller witnessFormer journalist turned fake protest entrepreneur
Current pitchReformed criminal turned PR expert on scandalFake protest pioneer turned whistleblower
What they’re sellingTrust through criminal credibilityTruth through manufactured consensus
The hustleMy past makes me an expert on deceptionMy deception makes me qualified to expose deception
What they won’t revealThe full client list from her pastCurrent client list and protest contracts

It’s not a reformation. It’s an expansion of the same hustle with better branding.


So Should I Have Him On The Show?

I asked my audience this at the end of the episode and I’m asking you here too — because I genuinely don’t know.

On one hand I don’t think I’ll get an honest conversation. He won’t name clients. He won’t name sources. And everything about the way this pitch landed in my DMs feels like exactly the kind of manufactured narrative his company specializes in.

On the other hand — sometimes the most interesting interviews are the ones where you already know the guy is full of it.

What do you think? Drop it in the comments. Should I have Adam Swart on Thoughts Off The Stem?


The Real Issue Nobody Wants to Talk About

Here’s the thing that actually bothers me most about all of this.

Most people can’t be bothered to protest. Real grassroots movements are hard. They require time, energy, belief and sacrifice. The fact that there’s a booming market for fake protests tells you something really important — the people with money have figured out that they can skip all of that and just buy the appearance of public support instead.

Your outrage is for sale. Your reality is manufactured. And most people scrolling their feed have no idea whether the protest they just watched was organic or ordered off a menu at $39.99 per head.

I basically assume at this point that anything I watch or read is at least partially bullshit. And honestly? That’s a really exhausting way to live.

So smoke one, think critically, and maybe — just maybe — question the next “spontaneous” protest you see trending on your feed.

Those are my thoughts off the stem. 🍃


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Research links for the Sesh:

https://crowdsondemand.com/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kristin_M._Davis

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crowds_on_Demand

https://www.nbclosangeles.com/news/local/concerned-citizens-turn-out-to-be-political-theater/2021439/

https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2024-03-14/paid-protester-company-looking-to-hire-7-foot-300-pound-giants-for-intimidation-factor

8 Disturbing Looksmaxxing Incel Culture Secrets You Need To Know

Justin Barone host of Thoughts Off The Stem podcast reacts to looksmaxxing and incel culture with Ken and Barbie figures representing unrealistic beauty standards

Looksmaxxing and incel culture have produced some truly unhinged ideas over the years — but hitting yourself in the face with a hammer to get dates might be the one that finally broke me. There are grown men doing this. On purpose. With an actual hammer. And they have hundreds of thousands of followers cheering them on.

I’ll let that sink in for a second.

Welcome to the world of looksmaxxing — the incel community’s full-send obsession with optimizing your physical appearance at all costs. And I mean ALL costs. We’re talking steroids at 14, crystal meth to hollow your cheeks, and a daily hammer session to your jaw because apparently that’s a thing people do now.

I’m Justin Barone. I’m 44 years old, I’m 260 lbs, and I used to be fit back in my 30s when I was about 185. Somewhere between Doritos and laziness I became what these kids would probably classify as some kind of ogre. But you know what? I still figured out that personality is the move. These kids apparently haven’t gotten that memo yet.

Let’s get into it.


What Is Looksmaxxing and Incel Culture?

Looksmaxxing is the practice of maximizing your physical attractiveness — and it started in incel culture. Incel, if you don’t know, stands for involuntarily celibate. These are dudes who can’t get a date and have decided that the reason is entirely their bone structure.

Looksmaxxing and incel culture are more connected than most people realize — the whole movement was born on incel message boards before it jumped to TikTok.

The movement got a massive boost from a 19-year-old content creator named Clavicular — and yes, that’s his actual name, or at least his online name. Braden. His name is Braden. I don’t know what we expected.

At 14 years old this kid started taking testosterone, using steroids, and by his own admission on camera — meth. Why meth? Because he thought it was basically just street Adderall. One derivative away, he says. He also took a hammer to his face every single day.

Not to bits and pieces. Just until it got red and puffy. Because he believed it would create micro fractures in his jaw that would heal into a sharper, more square jawline.

You know what else gives you a sharper jawline? Puberty. Which he was going through at the time. But he couldn’t wait.

This guy is now 19, has hundreds of thousands of followers, and allegedly earns over $100,000 a month teaching other young men how to do what he did. And somehow we as a society have decided this is acceptable.

I take partial blame. Not personally. But as a generation? Yeah. We dropped the ball.


Where Did We Go Wrong?

The looksmaxxing community and incel culture didn’t create these insecurities in young men — but it weaponized them.

When I was a teenager and I wasn’t getting invited to parties — and I wasn’t always, I was a chunky kid with a belly from eating too many Doritos — I didn’t smash my face with a hammer. Instead I went outside. Mingling with actual humans and correcting my personality in real time through real interaction was how you figured things out back then.

These kids don’t have to do that anymore. They can find a corner of the internet that validates whatever insane thing they’re thinking, and that corner will attach itself to them and grow. Before you know it you’ve got a 19-year-old doing meth for his skincare routine and an audience of young boys watching him do it.

I asked my kids about looksmaxxing. You know what they did? They rolled their eyes. Both of them. “Can you believe it, dad?” No. No I cannot. But I went deep on this one so you don’t have to.


The Weed Facts: Does Cannabis Actually Affect How You Look?

Since we’re talking about looks this week I figured we’d pivot to something actually relevant — what does weed do to your skin? Because if you’re going to take a hammer to your face you should probably know what your edibles are doing to your collagen first.

This segment’s facts come from Cosmopolitan, who spoke with dermatologist Dr. Karan Lal, MD. Here’s the breakdown:

FactorWhat Cannabis DoesThe Verdict
Testosterone & AcneTHC may slightly increase testosterone, which spikes oil productionCould cause breakouts in some people
Appetite & Glycemic IndexMunchies + carbs = higher glycemic indexAssociated with increased acne
Anti-inflammatory EffectsTHC is anti-inflammatory, may calm inflammatory pimplesCould actually help some skin issues
Stress & CortisolWeed can reduce anxiety, lowering cortisolLess stress = less oil = less acne
Skin PickingTHC may reduce itch and irritationCould help chronic skin pickers relax
Edibles & SugarGummies contain sugar that causes glycation — stiffening collagen and elastinCould contribute to sagging and wrinkles
Smoking & SkinSmoke sits on your skin and can irritate itExternal irritant regardless of strain
Dirty EquipmentUnwashed pipes and bongs spread bacteriaCan cause acne around your mouth

The honest takeaway? It’s not really the weed. It’s what you put in your body and how you take care of yourself. Clean your bong. Watch the sugar in your gummies. Manage your stress. That’s basically your cannabis skincare routine right there.

Oh, and I’ll say this — I’ve been smoking pretty regularly for years and I still get the occasional pimple along my hat line. I think it has more to do with cleaning your skin than anything else.


Dude For Real: The Looksmaxxing Terminology You Need to Know

This stuff comes straight from the looksmaxxing community and I genuinely couldn’t believe some of these are real terms that people use with a straight face. This week’s Dude For Real comes from Buzzfeed’s looksmaxxing explainer and dude — for real.

TermWhat It Means
MoggingDisplaying physical superiority over someone nearby
SoftmaxxingImproving looks through skincare, diet, exercise, grooming
HardmaxxingExtreme methods — surgery, steroids, bone smashing
Bone SmashingHitting your face with a hammer to create micro fractures that reshape your jaw
AscendingSignificantly improving your physical attractiveness. The looksmaxxing version of a glow up
MewingResting your tongue on the roof of your mouth to sharpen your jawline
The PSL ScaleA scoring system for facial attractiveness based on harmony, symmetry, and sexual dimorphism
Chad / StaceyHighly attractive man or woman. Top of the PSL scale
SubhumanThe lowest PSL score. The most unattractive. Literally called subhuman
Sub 5Anyone ranking below a 5 on the PSL scale — considered unattractive
LookismThe belief that your value and place in the world are determined entirely by your looks
Gesture MaxxingUsing humor to attract women rather than appearance
Femoid / FoidA dehumanizing term for women. Short for female humanoid
Hunter EyesAlmond-shaped, deep-set eyes with low brows — considered highly attractive

The system literally calls people subhuman based on their face. That’s not self improvement. That’s a cult with better lighting.


Looksmaxxing, Incel Culture and Why Personality Is the Real Move

If you’re not getting invited to parties — and I say this with love — it’s probably not your jawline. It’s probably your personality.

You can change everything about how you look. Get the surgery. Smash your face. Chew the gum. But when the mask comes off — and it always does — if your personality is garbage, people are going to figure that out. As a result they’re going to walk away every single time.

I’ve seen the ugliest people with the most friends because most people genuinely do not care what you look like. Instead they care whether you’re fun to be around, whether you make them laugh, and whether you’re loyal. That’s it. That’s the whole list.

Be that person. That’s the move. Not the hammer.

That’s the real problem with looksmaxxing and incel culture — it sells young men the idea that their value is their face, and there’s nothing they can do about it except suffer or smash.

As for Clavicular — I watched a bunch of his content researching this episode. He’s shallow, uninformed, and has a massive platform teaching young boys that their value is their face. That’s a failure. And it’s on us as the older generation to push back on that wherever we can.

If your kid is watching this stuff, talk to them. Ask questions and be present. Because we can’t leave them to figure this out on the internet.

Use a hammer if you want.

Those are my thoughts off the stem.


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From the Manosphere to Marijuana: Big Ego’s make Cranky Toddlers

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From The Manosphere to Marijuana: Comparing Tactics and Ideologies

From the Manosphere to Marijuana, what do a 1930s paper tycoon, the DuPont family, the first commissioner of the Federal Bureau of Narcotics and a modern-day “Alpha” influencer have in common? They are all fueled by the same thing: A massive, fragile ego, an overabundance of pride, and a scorned inner child who runs the show. In our latest Seshisode of Thoughts Off The Stem, we’re exploring the link between the Manosphere and Marijuana. We’re talking about Louis Theroux’s Inside the Manosphere documentary and connecting the dots to the “Great Hemp Wars” of 1937. It turns out, the history of cannabis prohibition and the rise of the “Taint”—sorry, the Tate brothers—are fueled by the exact same playbook: fear, gaslighting, and overcompensation.

The PeopletHEIR BACKGROUND

William Randolph Hearst
was an American newspaper publisher and politician who developed the nation’s largest newspaper chain and media company, Hearst Communications.

The DuPonts
Du Ponts have been one of the country’s richest families since the mid-19th century, when they founded their fortune in the gunpowder business. In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, they expanded their wealth through the chemical industry and the automotive industry

Harry J. Anslinger
was an American government official who served as the first commissioner of the U.S. Treasury Department‘s Federal Bureau of Narcotics

Inside The Manosphere: Ultra Masculine and Ultra Fragile

I recently watched the Louis Theroux doc, and like everyone else, I’m familiar with the ultra-masculine “women are only here to serve men” schtick. But honestly, It’s exhausting. These dudes are basically frat bros in the wild, uttering the stupidest collection of words I’ve ever heard while contradicting their own ideologies.

Take HSTikkyTokky—a name that sounds like a five-year-old’s favorite toy. Seriously it sounds like something that lights up and play sounds when you push it’s keys. Definitely not very masculine if you ask me. He preaches “masculinity” and says he doesn’t hate anyone, yet his content is a factory for hate speech and chaos. It’s all for the stream, all for the money. Young men following this movement need to wake up and see the parallel between the Manosphere and Marijuana prohibition: both rely on selling a false “authority” based on fear.

New Age Street-Corner Prophets: How the Manosphere Sells Insecurity

Their logic claims women are “born with value” (purely physical), while men must “create value” through financial wealth, supercar collections and a haram of women if they want. If you think a woman’s value is limited to anatomy, and men have no value, you’re a lunatic. Character is what gives us value. It’s what separates men, from boys, women, from girls and good people from losers.

When Andrew Tate brags about throwing a fight to bet on himself and triple his money, he isn’t being “manly”—he’s being a snake. These guys are nothing more than street-corner prophets in shiny suits, funding their lifestyles through the pockets of easily manipulated young men. Let’s call the Tate brothers what they are: The Taint Brothers. They are that smooth, untouched part of the male anatomy between the balls and the a**-hole.

They aren’t men; they’re boys starved for attention, protecting their fragile egos by degrading others because they never got enough hugs.

The ORIGINAL Manosphere

In keeping with this high level of self-absorbed nonsense, let’s look at how a group of old rich white guys successfully lobbied to criminalize marijuana. They didn’t want to make life better; they just wanted to protect their wallets. So instead of revolutionizing their industries and using or switching to more natural products, they lobbied congress to institute the Marihuana Tax Act of 1937. Instead of trying to make life better for the human collective they decided they needed the most money so, they said screw society, our profits are more important, and they launched a what would be the beginning of the war on weed.

William Randolph Hearst:

A pulp and paper giant worth $200 million in the early 1900s—the equivalent of owning the moon today. He didn’t want hemp competing with his timber. He couldn’t be bothered to retrofit or even change some of his pulp and paper mills to hemp textile factories, because as you know, white rich guys don’t want to give away a penny unless they get back 6. A little short sighted. Hemp is much more durable than paper.

The DuPonts:

In 1935, they released Nylon. Hemp was a direct threat to this new petroleum-based technology, so DuPont decided it had to go. Cause why use an eco friendly substitute, when you can use sinthetics to create what the natural world already did. Sure, hemp is a little more itchy but we’d have a lot less plastic in the ocean.

Harry J. Anslinger:

The first commissioner of the Federal Bureau of Narcotics. He was the original “talking head” bully, using gaslighting and fear to make a name for himself. Just like the Tate brothers, he needed to be the authority on something. He was probably just following the lead of the other two, but he bought their lies, hook, line and sinker.

The Manosphere and Marijuana: Gaslighting and Fear Mongering

When you compare the Manosphere and Marijuana history, you see the Anslinger Tactic in full effect:

  1. Create Fear: Print articles claiming cannabis makes you a killer.
  2. Divide the Public: Spew hate and lies to make something harmless look like the “worst evil imaginable.”
  3. Target for Assassination: Use lobbyists (the 1930s version of “bot farms”) to kill the competition.

From the Manosphere to Marijuana we Need a Beginners Guide

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When Your Girlfriend Starts Throwing Out Your Crap

Man attacked by hair and lotions for Thoughts Off The Stem podcast about relationship personal space when your girlfriend throws out your favourite crap.

You need terpenes that help anxiety, now that your girl has turned your space in to a “Penthouse” full of scented candles.

One day you’re a king. You have a queen-sized bed, a single kettlebell in the corner for your morning sets, and enough floor space to do some body weight squats and lunges to kick start leg day. It’s a temple of minimalist efficiency. You even have your original razor boxes neatly stacked under the sink because—let’s be honest—original packaging makes moving easier.

Then, she moves in.

Suddenly, your kettlebell is a doorstop. Your room has been annexed by blackout curtains and a king-sized bed that took up the last of your “activity” space. Your bathroom vanity storage space? Gone. It’s now a graveyard for 14 different lotions that all smell like “Spiced Rain” but serve no discernible purpose.

But that’s not even the scary part.

1. The Shower Wall Resident

You’re mid-shower, washing your business, and you look up. There, at eye level, is a matted mask of hair, clumped up, just… hanging out. You know it’s not yours. But it is a permanent resident of your new life.

2. The Nether-Region Garrote

You ever get halfway through your workday—maybe you’re in a meeting, maybe you’re at the gym—and you feel an aggressive, high-tensile tug? It feels like an invisible Bond villain is trying to reduce the flow of anything to the brains of your operation. Yeah there’s a hair wrapped around your balls bro.

Yeah, there’s a hair wrapped around your balls, bro. It’s the Invisible Assassin. Along with his buddy—the stray strand of your girlfriend’s hair hitching a ride on your caboose like a train-hopping hobo—it’s now flossing your “brown eye” like a piece of high-test dental tape.

Listen: If you’ve survived the Hair Assassin, you need to hear the full support group session on the latest episode of [Thoughts Off The Stem]—Click Here to Listen!


How to Survive “Girlfriend HQ” (Without Losing Your Mind)

If the sudden appearance of a vanity full of hairbrushes and girly stuff elevates your heart rate to 120 BPM, nature has a “mute” button. We call them Terpenes.

When your bachelor pad dies and your girlfriend starts tossing all your favourite crap, these terpenes help anxiety and you should look for them when choosing a strain to curb your anxiety:

Terpenes that help anxiety the invisible assassin

TerpenesThe Science
Limonene (The Paranoia Killer):A 2024 Johns Hopkins study proved that inhaling Limonene with your THC stops that “someone’s trying to suffocate me” anxiety.
Linalool (The Serotonin Shield):Found in floral strains, this terpene blocks serotonin transporters to keep your “rest and digest” mode active. It turns “Why is there a bar fridge here?” into “Hey, a bar fridge for my whiskey!”
Beta-Caryophyllene (The CB2 Specialist):It’s spicy, peppery, and hits your body’s calming receptors without making you too stoned to find the drawing of a wang she hid in your suitcase five years ago.

Myrcene (The Relaxation Foundation)
Increases sedation and muscle relaxation; helps cannabinoids hit faster. Earthy, musky, or “skunky” strains—mostly Indicas—are your best bet for a Myrcene fix.

How to Get Your Terps: Product Type Matters

Not all consumption methods are created equal. If you’re trying to outmaneuver the Invisible Assassin, you need to make sure you aren’t literally burning off your relief. Here’s the breakdown of how to get the most out of your terpene profile:

Product TypeThe Terpene DeliveryPro-Tip
FlowerHighest PotentialVaporize at low temperatures. High heat (combustion) destroys delicate terpenes.
VapesVariableAvoid distillates with “botanical” terps. Look for Live Resin or Full-Spectrum to keep the plant’s soul intact.
EdiblesLow (Usually)Most terpenes are lost during the infusion process, unless the brand specifically adds them back in.
TincturesConsistentStick to Full-Spectrum tinctures. Isolates are just the cannabinoids and usually have zero terpene benefit.

The Weird Truth

Relationships are weird. If you aren’t shouting “SHUT UP” at each other when someone sneezes or doing an elaborate mating dance involving one-handed clapping or dong slapping are you even in love?

You might have lost your floor space, but you gained a partner in crime who knows that if you’re happy, she’s happy. She’s just trying to make your space a sanctuary. Think of it like the Batcave—just pour some whiskey from that decanter on top of her fridge and ignore the floral aromas of your new blissful paradise.

Transitioning from a bachelor pad to a shared home is a wild ride, but as long as you’ve got the right Terps and a sense of humor, you’ll survive the “Invisible Assassin.”


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What’s the weirdest thing your partner did to your “man cave” after moving in? Have you ever been a victim of the Nether-Region Garrote? Drop a comment below and TAG a homie who’s currently losing the war for his under-sink storage! Don’t forget to share this post to help other brothers in arms survive the “Spiced Rain” invasion.

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My First Time Using A Gravity Bong: High Lessons

Justin Barone of TOTS podcast sharing High Lessons and gravity bong stoner stories.

The Gravity Bong: A DIY Masterpiece (and My Biggest Fail)

Whether you call it a Gravity Bong, a Bucket, or a ‘Geeb,’ this DIY stoner invention is a rite of passage. But as I learned the hard way, water pressure doesn’t care about your plans. Before we dive into the 2,700-year history of weed, let’s talk about the ‘High Lesson’ that left me waking up on a stranger’s couch.

Welcome to Thoughts Off The Stem! Today, we taking a trip down memory lane and sharing my first experience with “Buckets”. That’s right we’re talking about the time I hit that DIY atom bomb of a bong. Where the amount of clouds you have to inhale force their way out your ears like a cartoon and the unexpected Life Lessons that revealed themselves in that moment. Then we’re laughing at some of the more absurd but hilarious Stoner Moments from people online. We’re not just talking about getting high; we’re talking about the lessons that only come from those truly elevated perspectives.

The Bucket that started it all…

My very first experience with a gravity bucket wasn’t just a stoner moment—it was a full-blown initiation into another dimension. It was college, a time for exploration and, in my case, a distinct lack of proper planning.

  • The Scenario: A makeshift bucket in a cramped dorm room.
  • The Moment: Taking the rip, and immediately realizing I’d bit off way more than I could chew.
  • The Fail: Waking up hours later, not in my bed, not in a friend’s bed, but passed out on a total stranger’s couch in a completely different building. The lesson here? Know your limits, and maybe always have a wingman when trying something new.

What is a “Bucket”?

For those new to the game, a “Bucket” (also known as a Gravity Bong) is the ultimate Stoner MacGyver creation. It uses water pressure and gravity to create a vacuum that pulls a massive, concentrated cloud of smoke into a chamber (usually a 2-liter bottle). You then push the chamber down, using water pressure to force that smoke directly into your lungs. It’s effective, it’s intense, and as I learned, it requires a certain level of respect.

Weed Facts: A History of MacGyvering (2,700 Years & Counting)

You think building a bucket from a soda bottle is impressive? As I discuss in this episode, humans have been MacGyvering weed accessories for centuries. The fascinating History of Weed is filled with innovative ways people have utilized this plant for medicine, spiritual practices, and, yes, getting incredibly high.

the Historythe findings
The Shaman’s Secret (2,700 Years Ago)Paleoethnobotanists discovered nearly two pounds of 2,700-year-old cannabis in the burial pit of an ancient Gūshī shaman in China. This wasn’t for rope—analyses concluded this ancient society was already cultivating cannabis for psychoactive and divinatory purposes.
The Oldest Bong? (2,500 Years Ago)In 2019, archaeologists uncovered 2,500-year-old braziers—vessels designed to burn large quantities of cannabis—which contained potent residues. This proves people were actively burning and inhaling the plant for its effects centuries before the first gravity bucket was made.
The Global History:Humans were using cannabis 10,000 years ago, and trade routes linking Europe and East Asia likely increased its usage 5,000 years ago. From being an approved medicine in the U.S. Pharmacopeia in 1850 to the futile start of the “War on Drugs” in 1972, the story of this plant is one of invention and innovation.
January 2026 Resurrected EnzymesScientists “revived” ancient THC enzymes in a lab.

Dude, for Real: The Funniest Things People Do High

To wrap up this signature “High Lessons” launch, we’re looking at the hilarious side of those Stoner Moments. Waking up on a stranger’s couch is just the tip of the iceberg!

Check out this amazing list of 32 of the Funniest Things People Did While They Were High, which highlights the kind of creative-but-clumsy genius that only comes from a truly elevated state. From trying to “un-bake” a cake to getting caught in a complex conversation with a houseplants, these stories are the definition of a “High Lesson”.

What’s Your Biggest Stoner Moment?

The history of cannabis shows that we’ve been finding “High Lessons” in this plant for thousands of years. Whether it’s an ancient shaman in China or a college student on a stranger’s couch, the journey of discovery never really ends. These Stoner Moments are more than just funny stories—they are the building blocks of the Life Lessons we share here on Buckets.

Now, I want to hear from you. We’ve all had those moments where things didn’t go quite as planned, but we came out the other side with a great story (and maybe a little more wisdom).

What was your very first “MacGyver” moment—did you build a classic bucket, or were you more of an apple-pipe architect? Let’s hear your most creative (or disastrous) inventions in the comments below! If this story reminded you of a certain someone, share it with your favorite ‘engineering’ buddy!

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Stop Working For Free: Social Exposure Doesn’t Pay The Bills

TOTS420 podcast host with a sign saying Exposure Doesn't Pay The Bills, featuring a chart comparing Frosty Cake and Campfire Smoke quality.

Paying with exposure is a hustle that belongs in a buddy’s garage, not a professional business.

Why Paying With Exposure Doesn’t Work in the Real World

Imagine walking into a local pot shop, asking for an ounce of top-shelf flower, and offering to settle the tab with a shout-out on your Instagram story. You’d be laughed right out of the building. Why? Because legitimate industries don’t run on “vibes” or “likes,” yet in the podcasting world, my inbox is treated like a black market dealer’s garage where everyone expects a free bag in exchange for a few errands.

Welcome to Thoughts Off The Stem. I’m Justin Barone, and I hope life is being good to you, because lately, life has been acting like a prospecting pimp and I’m his prospective hoe. Recently, a couple of companies reached out with their pimp hand asking for me to get on the track and work for nothing but a slap in the face.

Light them if you got them, ‘cause here’s how these “exposure” deals played out.

The Worst “Paying With Exposure” Brand Deals I’ve Seen

Recently, a few companies reached out with “opportunities” that were really just chores in disguise. If you’re a creator, watch out for these red flags.

1. The Tin Joint Holder Tactic

A company reached out wanting a full suite of content: social shorts, feed posts, stories, a website feature on Tots420.com, and a spot on my YouTube review playlist.

  • The Offer: A free sample.
  • The Reality: They asked for my rates, saw them, and vanished. If you want a billboard, you have to pay the lease. A $10 tin doesn’t buy a week of production time.

2. The AI Tool That Wanted a Free Employee

This one was a masterclass in audacity. An AI podcast editing tool wanted a “partnership” where I would:

  • Edit one episode a week for three months using their (buggy) software.
  • Act as their unpaid QA and R&D department (reporting bugs and UI feedback).
  • Give them free rights to all my content for their ads.
  • The Payment: Use of the software.

Pro Tip: If a company asks you to find the bugs in their product while you advertise it for them, they aren’t a partner—you’re an unpaid intern.


Weed Facts: Stop Chasing THC Percentages

Before we get deeper into the “Dude, For Real?” files, let’s clear the air on some cultivation myths. THC potency is not the ultimate qualification for good weed. High potency is a byproduct of great cultivation, but a lower percentage doesn’t mean it’s “bad.”

Beyond the Hype: Weed Facts and Quality Control

Since we’re talking about high-quality work, let’s talk about high-quality flower. THC potency isn’t everything—potency is a byproduct of great cultivation.

How to Spot “Mid” Weed vs. Top-Shelf Flower

FeatureWhat to Look For
SmellPungent, bold, and nuanced. It should make your brain say, “I want to eat this.”
LookVibrant colors (whites, reds, oranges) with visible, “frosted” trichomes like a cake.
FeelSticky and slightly spongy. Stems should snap, not bend like celery.
StructureSativas should be light and fluffy; Indicas should be tight and dense.

The Red Flags of “Bad” Weed:

  • The “Musty” Nose: If it smells like a damp basement or a pile of straw, it’s aged or compromised.
  • The “Brown Sugar” Look: If the trichomes are amber and the bud is dirt-brown or lime-green, it’s past its prime.
  • The “Brittle” Touch: If it crumbles into dust or feels “wet” and tears apart instead of breaking, the cure was botched.

Dude, For Real? The “Exposure” Hall of Fame

They say there are no dumb questions, but the “Choosing Beggars” of the world prove that wrong every day. Whether it’s HuffPo asking for free articles while being a multi-million dollar entity or the guy who thinks Garlic is a valid currency for labor—the entitlement is real.

We’ve all seen the screenshots. The mechanic who gets asked for a “quick fix” for free, or the photographer (shoutout to the legends on BoredPanda) who gets told their work is “overpriced” because “I could do that with a filter.”

The bottom line: Exposure doesn’t pay the bills. Quality—whether in your flower or your content—costs money. If you want the “frosting,” you can’t pay with “crumbs.”


What’s Your Worst “Choosing Beggar” Story?

Have you ever been offered “exposure” in exchange for your hard-earned expertise? Drop a comment below or hit me up on socials. Let’s vent.

Want more unfiltered takes on the industry? Check out our Off The Stem Reviews

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Has Political Polarization Reached a Breaking Point?

Charlie Kirk Hypocrisy: The Contradictions You Can’t Ignore

Welcome to Thoughts Off The Stem. In this sesh, I’m digging into the Charlie Kirk debate that’s been taking over social media lately. I didn’t know much about the guy until recently, but the implications of the Charlie Kirk debate for free speech and political polarization are something we need to talk about.

TimestampSegment TitleKey Discussion Points
0:06The Evolution of the DebateMoving from sports talk (Jordan vs. LeBron) to political machinery.
1:49Emotional InvestmentWhy politics and religion create deep identity-based polarization.
2:49Free Speech vs. TacticsAnalyzing “Prove Me Wrong” culture and the risk of public speaking.
5:45Ethics of “Clip Farming”How rage-bait and selective editing fuel social media conflict.
15:06The Future of DiscourseIs freedom of speech at risk? The danger of celebrating a person’s demise.
24:10Red Bulls Strain ReviewLab stats: 26.4% THC, Terpene profile, and body-high effects.
29:46Final Sesh ThoughtsFinding the “Middle Spot” and achieving social unity.

0:06 – The Evolution of the Charlie Kirk Debate

Welcome the thoughts off the stem.

Thank you for joining me Justin Baroni on this session.

That’s great We’re going to have a nice little session.

We’re going to have a discussion.

We’re going to talk about the Charlie Kirk situation because I didn’t know very much about this guy.

The only instance that I’d had that I I’d actively engaged in watching before the events of last week was him debating college students on the merit of Michael Jordan being the GOAT versus LeBron James being the GOAT.

0:34

All of a sudden now he’s this political dude.

Now I get he’s been doing this for a while.

I don’t know how he made the jump from discussing Michael Jordan into all of a sudden this like ginormous political machine, essentially the Michael Jordan versus LeBron, LeBron debate.

0:50

Like there’s no real right and wrong.

There’s also no real consequence to that.

Like you’ll have fans that’ll come up to you and talk shit or tell you this or that or whatever they think.

But on the political landscape, all of a sudden you have like an emotion, a real viable emotion that’s attached to potentially somebody’s life.

1:10

I’m not attached to the fact that I think Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player of all time.

And you tell me that LeBron is.

I’m not emotionally invested or nor do I like identify my life isn’t the I don’t identify my personality as being that.

1:26

Whereas I think that with politics and religion, you have a lot of people that emotionally invest themselves and identify as being that thing.

It’s seated in a moral belief of conduct and you start applying that moral belief of conduct into whatever your political leaning is.

1:49From Basketball Debates to the Political Charlie Kirk Debate

And then on, once you’re invested in the politics of that, you end up turning around and trying to get your voice heard.

And as you start to find that it’s harder and harder to get your voice heard, you start to maybe spin some facts and spin some things that are more in your favor that that get attention, right.

2:12

So what I, what I mean by that, what I’m trying to say by that is that a big, a big portion of Charlie Kirk’s debates we’re fueled by the understanding that he wanted somebody to prove him wrong.

2:30

So he wanted to have an open discourse about the state of America and why the conservative side of things is a stronger belief or an, a stronger identity for the country than the liberal belief, right.

2:49 – Freedom of Speech and Tactics in the Charlie Kirk Debate

I could be wrong, but I’m pretty sure that’s it.

And then that fuels this concept that I’m standing up for freedom of speech, right?

But the undertones of your freedom of speech are based in religion where a lot of people get invested to the point where it’s black and white.

3:08

There’s no, there’s no Gray area of understanding.

There’s I believe it’s this way and This is why it should be this way.

And that’s it.

But his basis was proved me wrong and I didn’t see a lot of instances where it seemed that the people that he debated were were actually like when, when and if they proved him wrong.

3:30

It didn’t seem to resonate that that was the case.

The only, the only real videos that I saw of him, I saw of him admitting a defeat in the debate was when he was talking to a deaf gentleman about the fact about some things that he had said about deaf people.

3:51

And in that case, at the end, he, he basically said, you know what?

You’re, you’re right.

I was wrong.

I shouldn’t have done that.

But that’s about a, a personal choice of words and A and a mis education on what a certain section of society is expecting, right, In terms of in terms of being integrated into the regular function of society.

4:16

So with him, if he offended somebody, he would apologize.

I don’t think that he was a racist.

I don’t really think that he was a Nazi.

I don’t think any of that craziness.

I think that that’s a narrative that people just want to blanket to people when they say something that they don’t necessarily agree with.

4:35

I do think that he posed some things that really make him look bad, but everybody does.

If you’re in the public that often, you’re eventually going to say something that not gets taken out of context, but you’re going to say something that you believe that isn’t well received, right.

4:54

So there’s a few snippets of things that he said where you’re like, well, saying it like that, I can see why people would get this impression.

But again, he’s battling an argument that is that started off as being being bred out of like a pushy kind of accept me for me attitude.

5:15

And he was trying to bring back essentially a way to be heard or an ideology that was being squashed by the louder side of things.

So he just amplified and got louder and louder and louder to the point where I think that in his attempt at trying to debate this and change an opinion, he ended up taking on the tactics that that he complained about the other side taking.

5:45 – Ethics and Tactics Within the Charlie Kirk Debate

So for example, he there was a there was a lot of complaint about how his opposition would fear monger.

They would rage bait and they would create, they would clip farm from events and rallies that they had to show their perspective only.

6:05

But I but the problem is, is that anything that I saw with him, like I had to hunt down clips that were neutral that showed both sides of the point and then allowed both sides of the point to be heard and then showed what the actual outcome was.

6:25

And I think that he started to do what his opponents do and he started to do the same thing.

He started to upload clips that were literally designed to spark emotion to polarize people.

And he would like, I think that the setting of going to a university or college campus to bait to debate college kids is is the like definition of click far or yeah, click farming or clip farming.

6:55

Sorry.

Because as an older person that has more life experience going into an environment like that, you can 1 you put yourself in a position to control the environment.

You put yourself in a position to control the discussion and you put yourself in a position to be able to use tools like verbal traps and, and, and set up directions for the way that you want to take the discussion, right.

7:22

Because when you’re going into something like that, people aren’t necessarily prepared, at least not in the beginning.

They weren’t necessarily prepared to debate them because they hadn’t sat there thinking about it.

But that was his whole purpose for being there.

So he was already coming in with this kind of like, I’m higher, I’m more prepared than you, right?

7:41

And I don’t think that the argument that he didn’t go to college has any weight because he seemed like a relatively thoughtful and intelligent person, at least he seemed to.

He seemed to really think about and understand the concepts that he was talking about.

But he definitely did from time to time cherry pick information to get his point across because there were a few instances where fact checkers and online poll systems, they basically debunked some of the things that he said.

8:13

And within his own clips, you could see that the way that his clips were pointed were definitely to show him in the majority of the time winning the debate, which would obviously gain attention for the ’cause that he’s speaking about, which would all which would ultimately, you know, take that rhetoric and try to get the younger generation to come to his side.

8:36

Which to be honest, like that’s the goal of, of any belief system is to try and get the majority of the population and the younger generation to follow that system so that it becomes prevalent and predominant as you get older.

Right.

And then the, then the people that work in that, that, that work and function in society adopt those rules, morals and mannerisms or whatever.

8:57

And they, that becomes the normal way of life, right?

So I don’t really fault him for doing anything like that.

What I fault him for is putting himself in an environment where he’s more likely than not to be debating somebody that’s less equipped to deal with the conversation that you’re having.

9:22

You can’t have limited life experience and talk about all these political, religious and moral concepts and expect an educated, thoughtful, well understood reception to it, right?

9:43

Or take on it with somebody that’s even four years into college.

You have to get out of college and get into the real world and start operating within the real world to really understand what and how, like how things and what things work well, right?

9:59

And I’m not saying 1 ideology is better than another because there’s some things that I agreed with them on and there’s other things that I definitely didn’t agree with them on.

So I really had this conflict when I was thinking about it because like, I don’t think that when you have, when you have a scenario like this, the hate and the, and the response to the situation that happened with him was disgusting at first.

10:27 – The Consequences of Polarization in the Charlie Kirk Debate

You should never celebrate somebody’s demise based on their words.

There’s no, there’s no, there’s no room in life for having someone’s demise, like having someone’s demise be the result of you disagreeing with their opinion, right?

10:46

Like, I, I feel like we should all be able to agree on that.

So whether you agreed with the guy’s concepts, morals, ideas, ideology, whatever, there’s no reason that this should have happened.

The only reason that this happens is that you’re that potentially the person is so emotionally invested in a different way of thinking that they just can’t take it anymore and they snap.

11:07

That’s what I think.

And as far as something like this happening, I feel like anytime you’re a public speaker, if you are polarizing a whole society and and, and, and like intentionally trying to do so because I intentionally that’s what he’s doing.

11:27

He’s he’s maybe not trying to not really trying to start a fight about it, but he has to recognize at some point that what he’s doing is, and I’m not talking to Charlie Kirk, I’m talking to anybody that takes a stance on one side or the other.

That person, he or she has to understand that if they’re polarizing a large society, the level of danger attached to that and being in public and discussing your views in publics in public becomes a, a big problem, like a, a predominant issue.

12:07

It’s something that you need to be prepared for, right?

Because you, you can’t expect everybody just to be like, OK, because everybody’s not like that, Pete.

There’s all kinds of different people out there that are taking on this information.

And unfortunately, in a lot of in a lot of those environments, you’re not necessarily getting, you know, the cream of the crop of society.

12:29

You’re getting people that want to argue, that want to fight, that are emotionally invested in the fight.

So their emotion rises as their opinion rises.

As your answers come up there, there’s there’s a triggering effect that that puts you in a greater sense or a greater likelihood of danger and direct danger and ultimate imminent danger.

12:53

I think so.

I think that a part of what happened was when he first started doing his debates, he, he, he was kind of easy about it.

But I think that as he rose in the political landscape, he contributed to the potential for more and more danger because he started to adapt a lot of the tactics that he was complaining about from the other side, which ultimately, in my opinion, just fires off an emotional response, right?

13:27

And as we’ve seen time and time again, the more emotional people are and the more emotionally invested in these things people are, the more they become willing to go to extremes to define or win their point, right?

13:51

So I think it’s horrible that a person of his stature could have this happen.

I think that it’s deplorable that people would think that it’s acceptable to celebrate something like that.

I think that it’s disgusting that that people are still trading clips on, oh, he was this.

14:10

They’re still trying to prove it online.

All this is going to do ultimately is create potentially create a larger divide between the two sides.

And I think that this could really have a like a profound effect on how things happen going forward.

14:35

Like there’s a, there’s a good chance that a lot of civil unrest over time is going to come from this because people on both sides aren’t just going to go, oh, well, this happened.

I mean, maybe, maybe we’ll luck out and people will see the, the major issue with having something like this happen and the, the major concerns of, of what this, what the implications mean when something like this happens.

15:06 – Freedom of Speech and the Charlie Kirk Debate Outcome

Because it’s not just about the people involved or the, or the sides that, you know, brought us to this point.

It’s also about the understanding of free speech.

And as much as I don’t think that anybody should ever be, like I said, being in danger for giving their opinion right now in the landscape of life that is act is a is a serious concern.

15:38

Like you should be worried now that you can’t say what you think or what you want because something bad could happen to you.

And on one side, I think this makes people more willing to do certain things because they start seeing, they start seeing actions like this happen and maybe they start thinking, well, yeah, I’m going to change something too.

16:04

But then on the other side, there’s the other part of what we have to get back at these guys, which could cause more a more of an uproar and more of a more of a potentially violent engagement back and forth, right, And an escalation of violence and engagement.

16:23

So I think that really everybody should just kind of take a step back, OK, and think about what the implications of this are and forget about what side you’re on, but understand that this has a real huge, like, stamp on it.

16:44 – Is Freedom of Speech at Risk?

That is freedom of speech is at risk right now because if this is how it goes, people could clam up, stop talking, and then the then the conversation dies.

But I think that we should also highlight the fact that what led to the to these events and these kinds of things happening is the over amplifying of emotion through social media, through all, any type of media really.

17:12

Because think about it.

The thing that gets you to pay attention to something is generally some kind of adverse event.

Something bad happens, then something good happens or something good happens, then something bad.

Like there’s, there’s controversy in everything that we watch now, right?

17:27

So really the only way to get eyes on anything or or ears on anything that you want to bring to the forefront of discussion is it has to be done in a way that is almost guaranteed to cause or manipulate some kind of frustration, right.

17:47

And then the next thing you know, instead of being able to have a debate about it and actually talk civilly and go back and forth on merits and ideas and have a have an open dialogue about it.

You have this very black and white my points better than your point like forum of focus to just go back and forth, right?

18:06

And then within that, because you’re emotionally attached to these ideas, the emotion grows, grows and grows and grows until boom, it just explodes.

And I think that’s what we should be more aware about now.

18:22

I think that our awareness needs to start needs to focus on the on the concept of communication and how we communicate, what we communicate and the way that we construct our delivery of information on both sides.

18:44

Because all this is doing is creating a boiling point of violence.

And that’s it.

That’s my opinion.

That’s what I think.

I know you’re thinking like, Oh yeah, pothead could really tell me about told me, told me about Charlie Kirk.

18:59

Listen dude, we are some of the most political minded or at least aware people on the planet because a lot of stoners, potheads, weed smokers are advocates for change and they always want to find a way to make things more inclusive, more peaceful, more unified.

19:25

So when you say to when, if you have the impression that somebody that smokes pot shouldn’t have an opinion on the political landscape of today, you’re ridiculous because see, there, I just did it.

I just did the same thing.

I just kind of like rage baited you a bit.

You, you’re not ridiculous.

19:42

OK, but but have but thinking like that is is a bad way to think.

Because if you haven’t smoked weed and you don’t understand what weed does, you don’t know that weed will help you think about different angles of all the different situations that you have in life.

20:04

You’ll reflect on it if you get interested, it motivates you to read and learn about it because one thing about pot is that it will make you feel insecure about the things that you don’t know, right?

And if you try to try to start having discussions about things that you don’t know, then the weed itself is going to be like, you don’t know what you’re talking about.

20:22

Shut up.

That’s why it’s taking me like 3, three tries to do this podcast because I’m not trying to talk about Charlie Kirk, the man, because it’s unfortunate what happened to him and it’s never should have happened.

And and it’s actually no matter what his beliefs are, that should never happen to somebody.

20:39

So we can’t condemn a person.

We can’t condemn people for thinking differently than us.

We have to think, we have to allow the the concept of change to take hold in our lives.

20:57

And potheads are really good at doing that because a lot of us are not just the oh, I’m student on the coach Stoner dude that everybody thinks we are.

We’re highly motivated individuals that want to learn about life and how to make life a peaceful coexistence.

21:13

OK.

And we’re very aware what we’re watching, what we’re looking at, and we’re very good at, like I said, reflecting on the values, the morals, the conversation that happens in front of us.

21:32

Because I think that the majority of potheads or stoners don’t think I know everything about everything.

They think I want to learn more about everything.

That’s what I think gives potheads the right to be able to or stoners, whatever you prefer to be called.

21:49

Weed guy.

OK, enthusiasts.

I think that’s what gives us the right to be able to have an opinion on the discussion, because I think the discussion is not about the individuals.

I think the discussion is more about the actions of the individuals.

22:06

And the actions of the individuals are the really telling part of what the disruptor is that’s happening right now.

Does that make sense?

Because right now the disruptor is the fact that neither side can have a debate without emotionally being vested to the point where at at some point you’re going to scream and yell at the person and it’s going to result in name calling versus actually defining what any kind of statistic is or really trying to understand what it is that we’re talking about.

22:41

Sometimes we just get caught up in wanting to explain the point and wanting to be right.

And I think that on both sides, that’s what happened here.

Everyone wants to be right, but instead I think that everybody needs to take a fucking breath and take a set us, take a, take a seat for a minute and just reflect on what this really means for freedom of speech and for communication in general.

23:12 – Why the Charlie Kirk Debate Highlights Social Polarization

We can’t get to the point that we’re shooting people because they don’t believe the things that you believe.

That’s not right.

No matter who it is and what they’re saying.

If they’re not physically harming people or preventing someone else living the way of the way of life that they choose to live, then that person should be allowed to speak and, and, and say their piece without having to worry about what their fate’s going to be.

23:49

That’s my take on the Charlie Kirk thing.

I think it’s very unfortunate.

It really sucks.

And because that was going to be such a heavy episode session, so I decided that I was going to smoke a bit of an indica to keep myself calm and relaxed and try to be as thoughtful as possible.

24:09

So hopefully I was and hopefully you see what you see my point.

You can also tell me if you think I’m wrong, let me know leave a comment.

But to do to do this podcast to keep my energy level at a certain comfort, I decided I was going to smoke and did smoke.

FeatureDetails
Strain NameRed Bulls (by Ripe Flowers)
Genetics / TypeHeavy Indica
THC Potency26.4%
Primary TerpenesBeta-Caryophyllene, Limonene, Linalool
Flavor ProfileEarthy, Peppery, Heavy Mouth-feel
Best Used ForPost-workout, Social Anxiety, Deep Relaxation

24:30 – Sesh Review: Ripe Flowers Red Bulls Strain

That’s right, this sesh I smoked.

What’s it called?

Ripe flowers, Red Bulls.

Now, I thought this was going to be a sativa.

It’s not.

It’s an indica.

That’s why I decided to smoke it because I wanted to stay calm for this.

And so this is what it is.

24:46

It’s 1g joint or sorry, it was 1g of dried herb.

I put in a joint and it’s 25 point.

No, yeah, 2026.4% THC.

It’s got, it’s got, it doesn’t say what the percentage of terps it it, it is, but it’s top five terpenes are beta carophylline, alpha humaline, D limonene, linaluol, beta miercin.

25:19

Yeah, those are the five.

It’s good.

It’s kind of tasty.

It’s got like an earthier flavor.

It has like a hint of pepper.

It’s a good Hardy smoke.

25:35

It feels, it’s got good mouth feel.

It tastes a little more smoke like than flavorful.

So that’s why I say it tastes earthy ’cause you know how sometimes you get like an earthy smoke and it and it, it’s got like this underlying body where it feels like heavy in your mouth.

This feels heavy.

25:52

But oh, you know what it’s like.

It’s like a a light cigar where you get a little flavor.

But the no, Yeah, yeah.

About a light cigar.

The smoke’s a little heavier than a light cigar, but the flavour is like a light cigar.

That’s what I’m trying to say.

26:12

The effects are very calming.

I just feel relaxed all over.

I feel like if you did some sort of physical exercise and then came home and you just wanted to sit on the couch and zone out and watch TVI feel like I could flat back it and lay down on the couch and just zone out.

26:29

You know what I’m saying, after smoking this, it’s not really a head high.

It doesn’t really hit you in the head at all.

It’s all, it’s pretty much all body, which I think is why I was able to explain myself in this one because I, like I said, I tried this like four or five times and it didn’t work out as well as I thought it was.

26:50

It burns nice and slow.

The ash is Gray, so that’s nice.

It doesn’t really, I mean, I did cough, but it doesn’t really give you a bad cough.

It tastes like it should kind of OK.

But yeah, I would recommend it.

27:06

I’d recommend it if, because I don’t know what it cost, it was donated to the show.

So if it’s not an expensive half quarter, like if it costs you 25 to 30 bucks, then it’s a good pick.

27:24

If it costs you any more than that, I wouldn’t bother.

You could get better stuff, but for just having a laid back high, I don’t know how long it’ll last.

Hopefully a bit.

This one’s really nice.

It’d be good After workout high, after workout smoke.

Make sure that you don’t get any muscle cramps the next day.

27:44

Yeah, it’s got point O 7% CBD now about what, 3/4 of the way through this gram joint that I rolled of it and I feel like the taste is getting to me.

28:01

So I’d say if you’re going to smoke this, do like a half 1/2 gram.

You probably don’t need the whole gram.

It seems strong enough.

You feel a bit in your eyes, mostly in your eyes, your cheeks, and then your whole body’s just like, oh, I’m good, I’m just going to lay back here.

But your mind is you could be social on it.

28:20

It’s a good social relaxer.

So if you have social anxiety, this might be good for you, especially if you’re a little bit high, like tightly wound, this might bring you down a bit.

Could be good.

So I recommend it.

Yeah, that’s what I say.

I say check that out.

I say what happened to Charlie Kirk is it didn’t need to happen.

28:44

It’s very disappointing act that shows you the state of society right now.

And I think that it should be a it should be a, it should be a turning point in history to adjust how we’re doing some things because violence and and aggression are becoming too familiar.

29:13

I think we need more unity and I think that that’s what this incident should show us is that that’s what we need.

We need to unify.

We need to we got to find the common ground, the middle spot, the sweet spot, and we got to start, you know, interacting on that level because the way that we’re going right now is just dude, it’s it’s leaning to chaos.

29:46

But those are my thoughts off the stem for this week.

Hope you enjoyed the sesh.

Hope you come back next week.

Thank you for joining me, Justin Baroni, your friendly neighborhood pothead.

Yeah, come back next week on Spotify and Google.

Spotify, Google Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, iTunes, YouTube, Good pods, Pod Chaser, Pod Bean, Pandora.

30:14

Anywhere you get a podcast, really, it’s out there.

Check out tots420.com.

Oh, you know what I’m going to do so on tops420.com, I’m going to put up the I had a chat with ChatGPT about what I was trying to find out about Charlie Kirk.

30:34

So I’ll put that whole conversation up so you can read it because I think it was a fair discussion.

And I think that, well, you look at it and and you decide.

Check out tos420.com.

30:51

OK?

Subscribe to the channel.

If you made it this far, let me know what you think of the episode.

And yeah, until next time, keep your lids low, baby.

The Charlie Kirk debate is about more than just one person; it’s a reflection of how we communicate as a society. While I explored the Charlie Kirk debate during this sesh, I hope we can move toward more unified, civil discourse.

You can see the full Sesh here on Spotify and Youtube

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba

Thoughts Off The Stem | Weed Infused Comedy Podcast

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba – Seshisode 195 Transcript

Traveling to Cuba in 2026: Fuel, Food, and Fines

Before you pack your bags, know that Cuba in 2026 is facing a major humanitarian and energy crisis. With frequent blackouts and shortages of basic goods like bottled water and medicine, your ‘relaxing getaway’ might require more planning than usual. Most importantly, while Canada has embraced the leaf, Cuba remains a Zero Tolerance zone. Vapes, gummies, and flower are all fast tracks to a long stay in a Cuban prison.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 0:06

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba: Adventures With an Infused Tourist!

went on vacation and lost weight.

How does that happen?

Well, you go to Cuba, of course.

The beaches are amazing, that the food is questionable at best.

Let me take you on a little journey this sesh.

It all starts in the bathroom of Toronto airport before we get on a plane to go to Cuba.

Before we head to the gate and after we deal with the bags, Captain Justin decides that he’s got to take a tinkle.

0:26

So off to the washroom.

My prance.

Now I’m walking in as the dudes walking out of the last stall.

Of course, it’s the only available spot to go, so I guess I’m going to do my business in there.

Well, that dude, he decimated it, man.

Decimated it.

0:42

It was a tsunami of shit inside and outside the bowl.

Do you have any idea how hard it is to take a leak while you’re straddling poop landmines?

Yeah, that’s right.

Poop was on the floor, dude.

And no, it’s not easy to arc your pee from the door of the stall to the bowl and not hit your pants or shoes.

1:02

So I finish up in the stall and I’m leaving, and as I walk out of the stall I almost run into this dude in the middle of the room who’s repeatedly slamming his hat on the floor and yelling and fighting ghosts.

And no, the floor wasn’t even kind of clean.

1:18

Poop landmines, dude.

So I squeeze by Captain Fights a ghost, and I wash my hands real quick because I got to get the hell out of there before feces start getting chucked across the room.

That was the beginning of the trip, dude.

1:34

That’s right.

We hadn’t even got to the gate yet.

So we get to the gate, we’re waiting to board the plane, and now it’s my girlfriend’s turn to get a little visit from the Tinkle Fairy.

So off she goes to the bathroom.

Boop A doop.

A doop.

Just after she leaves, these two ditzy college chicks walk past me and ask if this is the line for the plane.

1:54

There’s only one line, dude, and I’m not even kind of in it.

I’m kind of off to the side ’cause, you know, they bored you by section, so the line is kind of pointless and a little dumb.

Anyway, I say yeah, yeah, it is.

As my girlfriend comes back, she’s just in time to see Ditzy 1 and Ditzy 2 come walking by again, trying to retrieve reusable plastic Starbucks water cups from this oversized shoulder bag they’re carrying.

2:19

Now, as they’re walking, they realize that they’ve spilled all the water in the bag.

Now you’d think they’d be line it to the bathroom, right?

To clean it out before they board the plane.

Nope, not even kinda.

No, not these chicks.

These chicks pop a squat in the middle of the seating area, empty the contents and dump the water right there.

2:41

Why?

Why you ask?

Well, ’cause people are dumb, dude.

So finally the call for boarding goes out.

Now guess who gets on the plane first?

That’s right.

This guy right here.

As I said, lines are dumb and it’s kind of pointless.

3:02

So we get on the plane, we find out we’re on the emergency row, and that’s why we boarded the plane first.

This also means legroom, and that’s a hot commodity on a plane.

So excitement.

Yeah, out 100.

Added bonus, we get to watch all the people board the plane.

And since we like the people, watch it talk shit.

3:20

It’s like a celebration of joy.

You ever seen a selfie queen?

Me neither, until this day.

On this day, I got to witness one in the wild.

Baby.

This chick 2 rows in front of us took selfies the whole time at literally from the time she sat in her seat to the time we got off the plane.

3:41

Click, click, click, click, click, click. 189 photos, dude.

From two different angles.

Then there’s these two chicks behind us and they’re talking about their boyfriend’s red flags.

Apparently this one dude asked why way too often and it drove one of the girls nuts.

3:57

So of course, I had to eavesdrop on the conversation to find out what their red flags were.

You know what they were?

Well, I must have heard the phrase and like about 900 times.

Dude, imagine listening to this for half of a three hour flight.

And like I was at work and like I was wearing my red dress with like the open back and like I got really cold and Bonnie didn’t even like offer me her cardigan when the air conditioner broke and like made it like a meat locker in the office office.

4:21

And like when I called my boyfriend at lunch, he didn’t even like ask why my like, well, like, like my teeth were chattering like and like I was very hurt and like I was expecting him to like say something and and like I wanted him to say something.

So like I would I could feel better because like I wanted to be warm and I couldn’t be warm and like he didn’t care And like Bonnie was being a total bitch.

4:41

And then like my nipples got cold.

And then Robert made a comment and like, I just wanted to die.

But like, I didn’t, I didn’t die.

The flight to Cuba is 3 hours, 3 1/2 tops.

Imagine half of that.

This.

Now our flight was not 3 hours.

No, our travel time was about 9 hours because five other dopes delayed the flight by half an hour because apparently planes don’t wait for people.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 5:04

Now who knew?

The last time I was in an airport missing the plane, I had to Sprint across the whole airport just in time to see the plane taxi to the runway.

And I was only 5 minutes late.

Dude, WestJet doesn’t play by those rules.

They hang out on the tarmac until you show up.

5:20

You don’t have your documents ready?

No worries.

No problem dude, we’ll help you fill them out at the boarding desk.

Because forget that 200 other people have been waiting 45 minutes for your dumbass.

Why do we have a rule that people have to be at the airport 3 hours ahead of their international flight if the departure time is just kind of a guideline?

5:45

So we finally take off about 45 minutes late.

No big deal, right?

It’s only 45 minutes. 45 minutes doesn’t make that much of a difference, except for the giant storm over the airport we have to circle on our arrival to Cuba.

So now we’re circling Cuba for two hours, just flying up and down the coast, just cruising up and down the coast in the plane baller, right?

6:05

No, no, it’s not.

You know why?

Because this is how dumb people are.

You can see the giant storm cloud and lightning flashing outside the right side of the plane.

Now people start asking the crew at this point why we haven’t landed yet.

Seriously, half the plane is taking videos out their window of lightning going off, lighting up the cabin like mortar shells, and you don’t know why we’re still in the air.

6:31

This is the same time when you can see the mob mentality starting to build.

Just as tension builds to a boil, the cabin crew comes out all smooth.

That’s right, they soothe us like babies breaking out chocolate chip cookies and some sweet treats because just like toddlers, you can’t talk when you’re chewing.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 6:54

Finally we’re able to land right and it’s about midnight and we make our way through customs, then to the baggage carousel and the bags start coming out on the carousel along with a dude and his drug sniffing Cocker spaniel.

7:11

They’re walking over the bags and of course the dog stops at my bag and gives it a pretty good huff a couple times, You know?

I mean I get it, my bag was in my basement before I left, so it might have smelled like weed a bit, but also cat, cat litter and dog.

So I take the bag off the carousel, right?

7:29

Well, doesn’t Buddy and his drug sniffing Cocker spaniel beeline it right to me?

So I push the bag out towards them so the dog can sniff it again.

Because what kind of drug mule puts the bag full of drugs in front of the drug sniffing dog, right?

That’s my logic.

7:45

So the dog sniffs at once and then moves along.

No Cuba gel for Justin baby.

After about an hour bus ride we finally get to the resort.

We’re definitely we’re exhausted, we’re definitely agitated, and we’re definitely ready for sleep.

8:02

So we check in and the room they give us was gross dude with a capital GROSS.

OK, the air wasn’t on in the room and it was the most humid.

OK, everything was damp or at least it felt damp.

The worst part was my fat ass couldn’t even handle the humidity for the first two days.

8:19

I was sweating like a pedo and gentpop dude.

That’s right.

So the next day we had them change our room and that’s when I figured out you if you tip the right person you can get pretty much anything you want to.

Also dudes will try and get you to give them your shoes, especially if you have some slick ass Nikes because they love that shit.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 8:37

It’s definitely a little off putting though when a waiter comes up to you after breakfast grilling you about the cost of your shoes and he’s trying to find a way to ask you to give him your shoes without actually asking you to give him your shoes.

You know it’s weird dude.

So when we got our new room, we were introduced to the concierge and she set us up with obviously the way better room on the opposite side of the resort.

8:59

It was much quieter, there were fewer people, the the room was nice and cool when we got there, there were no wet sheets or moist towels, and the tub didn’t look like a breeding ground for alien dude.

OK, it was definitely a step up, but I learned very quickly that you don’t go to Cuba for the hotel rooms or the food.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 9:16

You go for the vibes bro.

Now here’s something to keep in mind.

I’m the kind of guy who has some stupid thing happened to him on the first day, like a wicked sunburn or a broken ankle, you know?

And then it’ll limits my ability to do things for the rest of the trip.

9:32

So I tried to take every precaution not to have that happen.

So I spent a week working in my new slide so I wouldn’t get blisters.

I sunscreen regularly so I wouldn’t burn.

I watched what food I was I was eating so that I wouldn’t poop myself.

You know, all the good stuff.

After one day of being a bobbing head in the ocean, I get back to the room and I’m as red as a lobster and my feet are burnt.

9:52

Burnt dude who burns her feet?

This guy, This guy burns their feet.

There’s wicked blisters on both my big toes and again, I’m pouring sweat like a waterfall in the Burmese jungle.

OK.

Oh, and I had a heat rash that made me look like a bright red beacon of disease.

10:11

You want to know what’s good for all of that though?

Salt water, dude.

That’s right, Just a little salt water.

Three days in the ocean and it all started to clear up except the feet.

The feet didn’t get better till like you know, the last day.

In fact, these puppies are still peeling and healing.

10:27

I’ve been home for like 3 weeks too.

We spent all our days on the beach, My girl getting bronze like a goddess and me showing up like you know, half boiled bull meat.

But otherwise good time.

The ocean was pretty awesome.

It was amazing actually.

ItemStatus in Cuba (2026)The TOTS420 Advice
Cannabis / EdiblesStrictly IllegalDon’t even bring a stray seed.
Vapes / E-cigarettesConfiscatedThey will take them at the airport.
Cigars (Export)50 loose / 200 with receiptThe only thing you should be smoking.
Cash (USD/EUR)EssentialCuba is cash-only; your cards won’t work.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 10:42

The beach was clean, the water was so clear that you could see the bottom.

You know what was gross?

The pools, dude.

Resort pools with the swim up bar, Those are gross.

You want to know why resort pools with the swim up bar are gross?

Because everyone’s just sitting there all day warming the water periodically so they don’t have to get up and lose their spot.

11:05

Yeah, that’s right.

You’re swimming and pee, dude.

For sure.

I mean, I know people pee in the ocean, but I feel like based on the size of the ocean versus a pool, there’s a lot more particulate dilution happening in the ocean.

Plus it’s just better for your skin.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 11:21

Dude, in between ocean Bob sessions, we hit up to 24 hour snack bar for hot dogs, fries and beer.

Or sometimes, you know, we go to the main buffet for rice and bread because that’s all we ate for seven days.

Because apparently you don’t go to Cuba for the food.

Dude, you can ask anybody.

Normally when you hear buffet, your heart flutters and you get a little rush of excitement, right?

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 11:42

Not in Cuba.

In Cuba, your butthole puckers and your stomach becomes a Nazi dietitian.

Yeah, that’s what happens.

Actually, we did have eggs and sometimes sausage in the morning, but it was definitely limited.

You know, the rest of the time we were fueled by cappuccino and beer.

11:59

From time to time, we heard some people talking about how good the food actually was, and quite frankly, it blew our minds.

Yeah, that’s right.

Do you know what it’s like to be terrified of ice?

Getting ice in your cup was like having your worst nightmare manifest into reality or a spider run up your leg.

12:20

For the next hour, you’re on high alert, waiting to see if you shit your pants or develop puncture wounds.

Dude, I’m just saying there’s nothing like wondering if you’re going to wake up the next day with a deformity.

OK, then about four or five days in, we catch ourselves talking about how good some of the food was.

12:36

You know what that taught me?

Well, it takes five days to reset your standards for greatness.

All you need is a little deprivation and bam, your standards drop faster than a boner being bit by a hooker.

What I’m saying is, the food is not great, but after a few days rice can be as satisfying as a Big Mac.

12:58

We met some pretty awesome folks, but like I said, it also helps that we figured out who to tip right.

We worked it out so that almost every spot through the resort we had somebody taking care of us.

Our waiters at the buffet made sure we had the table we liked, the beer we liked, and they always gave us a heads up on the state of the buffet before we went to the buffet.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 13:16

You got to have an inside man.

Dude, it was awesome and we met a couple ladies in the coffee lounge who made sure that we always had drinks or cappuccino when we passed through.

We never had to actually go to the bar when they were working, they always came and found us.

So we got served while we were sitting there doing whatever we were doing.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 13:35

I think it started to make an impression though, like kind of across the resort, because within a few days we started to notice more of the staff making a point of acknowledging us just in passing.

Waiters also started to meet us at the entrance to the buffet and entice us to sit in their section.

13:51

Then one night a gardener comes out of nowhere while while I’m smoking a cigar on a patio and gives flowers to my girlfriend.

Now you didn’t want to tell me that guy didn’t want a tip.

If I’m being honest, it was kind of awesome, but it was also kind of off putting and because you know, so we had to get a little more strategic with our tipping.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 14:10

Overall it was a pretty good experience.

So it was my first time to Cuba and I definitely go back.

Maybe I’ll check out a different resort though.

Here’s the thing, you just, you can’t have expectations and you have to be adaptable, right?

Because the Cuban people, like I said, are awesome.

The travelling people, not so much.

Man people are much more selfish than I remember.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 14:28

A lot of people they would actually empty trays from the buffet onto plates just for their table without like any regard to the fact that there were, you know, hundreds of other people there.

Manners and etiquette were definitely lacking from most of the tourists I saw.

14:45

The messed up part was there were very few Americans though.

Because they can’t go.

I’m just saying that’s behavior that we would expect because, you know, let the the resort population was basically Europeans, Canadians and French Canadians.

15:01

So what made the food hoarders even more surprising?

We’re we’re supposed to be like a nicer people.

Maybe we are, but we’re definitely a selfish, OK?

There was a lot of questionable fashion sense, which makes people watching super fun.

15:21

I don’t think I saw so many shiny fake accessories like the big wannabe Gucci sunglasses.

Old dudes were wearing those.

Dude, there were fake gold watches everywhere.

Rings, chains, chains.

People wear the chains in the ocean.

It looked ridiculous, tacky.

You know, it kind of came across as a little desperate.

15:38

Maybe pay attention to me, attention seeking.

But I guess, you know, whatever makes whatever makes you feel good about being you.

I’m just saying I’d rather not be chuckled out in passing, that’s all.

So by the time the food seemed to be running out and my skin started to clear up, it was time to fly home.

15:59

And of course, our return flight was like 11:00 PM and luckily it was on time, right?

And the flight only took about 3 hours this time.

The downside was that the end of our flight was through a thunderstorm.

This time there was no circling though.

No, the pilot just took us right through that bitch.

16:17

It didn’t seem to matter that at any moment the cabin could have been filled with an excessive amount of barf.

There was a lot of turbulence, a lot of lowering levels really quickly.

So other than flying through storms on the front and back leg of the trip, the first night’s room, and the, you know, 7 days of starvation, the trip was a great time.

16:36

I was able to forget I had kids.

I got to enjoy the moment.

Get lost to the fantasy of being present.

You know, drink some decent beer and have a few cigars.

Because that’s what Cuba is about, baby.

I will say this though, research your destination before you go so you have an idea of what to expect and then keep those expectations low.

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 17:00

Be flexible because shit’s going to happen and you don’t want to let it ruin your perfectly good time, dude.

Overall, I give my first visit to Cuba a pretty good experience dude.

I thoroughly enjoyed myself even though I came home a little redder than I wished with a few more foot injuries than I had planned, you know what I’m saying?

What You Really Need to Know About Cuba 17:25

And because I liked it so much, I try to keep the vibes going and it gives what gives me the laid back vibe.

OK, is low key what is it?

Let me try that again MTL cannabis low key frosted flakes.

17:42

It’s pre rolls they’re half grams, they are 32% THC and they’re a nice laid back indica.

And if you want to tell me this isn’t an indica, if you want to label it something like that, it’s a hybrid leaning indica, whatever.

17:59

It’s nice and relaxing.

So it makes me kind of like feel like I’m back in Cuba because when I got back a few weeks ago, you know, I was just cruising along and then all of a sudden you get back into like, you know, regular life and you start to speed up a bit.

18:17

I want to be island slow again.

That’s my plan.

So when I want to feel like that, I smoke these because they’re actually pretty good.

They’re a little peppery.

The pre rolls are a little tight, so they burn a little more like they burn a little faster than you want them to.

18:36

But yeah, if you want to relax, if you want to take the edge off, it’s a good after work weed.

When you get to sit down, you just get to, you know, lay back and do your thing.

I wonder if it tells us what the terps are on here.

So the terps.

Oh, I can’t read when I’m high.

It’s an indica, the mix.

OK, so here are the stats.

18:55

Frosted Flakes by MTL Cannabis.

They’re low key brand or version?

It’s indica, it’s cereal, milk and Mach one mixed together.

There’s farnacine, limonene, linaluol, Osamine and bazabilol, bazabilol, bizbolol, whatever that is.

19:22

Those are your terps.

And I think it’s like a one point something.

It doesn’t say does it say I don’t see anything that says what the percentage is, but it’s a good smoke if you want to relax.

It’s nice and tasty.

You got to like the peppery side of things though, because it is a it does have like that peppery taste to it.

19:47

But I’ve been smoking these for like a week now and I got to say I quite enjoy them.

They’re pretty good.

So if you’re looking for something laid back and you’re looking, they’re a little more expensive though, if I remember correctly.

No, I think it’s like 7 pack for like 25 bucks maybe.

Anyway, it was pretty good.

20:03

It was a pretty good pick.

I say if you’re looking for something relaxing, get that.

It’s a good smoke.

It’s Hardy, gives you good mouth feel, you know, good exhale, nice clouds.

20:21

Yeah.

So those are my thoughts off the stem for this week.

If you get a chance, go to Cuba.

Keep your expectations low.

But overall, if you just expect to drink and visit the beach, you’re going to have a great time.

I would have liked to go out into Havana, but time did not permit.

20:37

And also, I hadn’t been on vacation in 20 years.

So, you know, I wanted to sit on a beach and think about nothing.

I achieved that.

So yeah, so that’s what I say.

Go to Cuba, don’t take weed.

But when you get back and you want to feel like you were you’re back there, then smoke some of this Frosted Flakes.

20:56

They’re good.

Thank you for joining me, Justin Peroni, your friendly neighborhood pod head on thoughts off the stem.

Hope you come back next week and join me for another session on Spotify, Google Podcast, Apple Podcast, iTunes, YouTube Pod, Chaser, Pandora, Good pods Pod being whenever you get a podcast, it’s out there.

21:25

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Why You Should Leave the Stash at Home

  • The Airport Trap: Cuban customs dogs are highly trained, and vapes are often flagged as “drug paraphernalia” even if they only contain nicotine.
  • Severe Penalties: We aren’t talking about a small fine. Drug offenses in Cuba carry lengthy prison sentences in very harsh conditions.
  • The “Zero Gravity” Rule: If it’s in your system or your suitcase, you are under Cuban law the moment you enter their airspace.

Have you ever had a “close call” with customs while traveling, or do you play it strictly by the book? Share your travel horror stories (or tips) in the comments below! If you have a friend heading to the Caribbean this year, send them this guide before they pack their bags!

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Exploring THCV: The Cannabinoid with Unique Properties and Potential Benefits

THCV a cannabinoid with unique potential stands out as a fascinating compound with distinct characteristics and promising therapeutic potential. While THC and CBD often dominate the spotlight. THCV quietly garners attention for its unique properties and emerging research findings. Join us as we embark on a journey to unravel the mysteries of THCV, exploring its diverse effects and potential benefits.

**Understanding THCV:**

THCV is a naturally occurring cannabinoid found in cannabis plants, albeit in smaller quantities compared to THC and CBD. Like other cannabinoids, THCV interacts with the body’s endocannabinoid system. Which plays a crucial role in regulating various physiological functions, including mood, appetite, and pain perception. However, what sets THCV apart is its distinct molecular structure.

**Distinct Properties of THCV:**

One of the most intriguing aspects of THCV is its biphasic nature, meaning its effects can vary depending on the dosage consumed. At lower doses, THCV may act as an antagonist, blocking the effects of THC and dampening its psychoactive effects. Conversely, at higher doses, THCV can exert psychoactive effects of its own. Albeit with a shorter duration compared to THC.

Moreover, THCV is known for its potential to modulate appetite and metabolism. Unlike THC, which is often associated with stimulating appetite, THCV has been found to suppress appetite in some individuals. This appetite-suppressing effect has sparked interest in THCV as a potential treatment for obesity and related metabolic disorders.

**Potential Benefits of THCV:**

While research on THCV is still in its early stages, preliminary studies suggest it may offer a range of potential health benefits:

1. **Weight Management:** THCV’s ability to suppress appetite and potentially enhance metabolism makes it a promising candidate for weight management interventions. Some studies have suggested that THCV may help regulate blood sugar levels and improve insulin sensitivity. Which are crucial factors in managing obesity and type 2 diabetes.

2. **Neuroprotective Effects:** There is growing evidence to suggest that THCV may possess neuroprotective properties, offering potential benefits for neurological conditions such as Parkinson’s disease and multiple sclerosis. THCV’s ability to modulate neurotransmitter levels and reduce inflammation in the brain could play a role in its neuroprotective effects.

3. **Mood Regulation:** Preliminary research indicates that THCV may have mood-regulating properties. Some studies suggesting that it could have antidepressant and anxiolytic effects. By modulating neurotransmitter activity in the brain, THCV may help alleviate symptoms of mood disorders and improve overall emotional well-being.

**Conclusion:**

THCV represents a promising frontier in cannabinoid research, with its unique properties and potential benefits capturing the interest of scientists, healthcare professionals, and consumers alike. As our understanding of THCV continues to evolve, so too does the potential for harnessing its therapeutic properties to improve human health and well-being. By delving deeper into the science behind THCV and conducting further research, we can unlock new avenues for utilizing this fascinating cannabinoid to address a wide range of medical conditions and enhance overall quality of life.

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Spread Love and Stay Positive

Thoughts Off The Stem Seshisode Transcript

Watch here: Spread Love, Stay Positive and Smoke a Dube – Seshisode 185

Welcome to Thoughts Off The Stem.

I’m holding back a cough when I’m Justin Barone, your friendly neighborhood pot head.

There it is.

There’s some more dude.

I haven’t hit the bong in a while.

I’ve generally been just been smoking joints or hitting the stunden glass.

0:30

I guess the stunden glass is kind of like a bong, but it’s a little easier because it’s concentrate.

So I find it a little smoother, a little more flavor as opposed to just like drier burnt weed flavor.

But yeah, today we’re smoking blue.

It’s actually pronounced blue, but it’s spelled BLEUH.

0:52

We’re smoking French cookies.

It’s their sativa.

It is 28.42% with 4.11% terps.

Does it tell me what the terps are?

No Anyway, as you can tell I’m wearing all blue smoked out of a blue bong hit with a blue a blue lighter.

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1:17

I love weed dude.

I love having fun.

I love weed and having fun.

I love having weed and having fun.

That’s like my whole goal with this sesh or this podcast.

The whole point is to make it a sesh, Make it reflective of what it’s like to sesh so that if you don’t have anybody to sesh with, you could sesh with me always.

1:41

There’s a hundred and well, 80 something episodes of this seshisodes.

That’s right, they’re seshes.

That’s why the topics are so like broad and they vary so much because it’s, I wanted to, I want to sort of like bring the concept of a sesh to a podcast.

2:00

But like a proper sesh, you talk about anything.

There’s no like real one situation for you.

You know what I mean?

There’s no one topic of discussion.

You generally like bounce around to a bunch of different things.

For me and my group, when we used to smoke in circles, we haven’t done that in a while.

2:20

You would start with talking about what you were smoking and then you would talk about, you know, whatever was sort of like going on that day.

And then you would end up talking about whatever’s going on in like the news.

And then you would shoot the shit and just try to, you know, make each other laugh.

2:37

And it would go on different variations of that, but there was no one conversation.

So when I started thinking of like, OK, I want to do this podcast called Thoughts Off the Stem.

The whole point is, is that you’re session, you’re just having a good time.

You’re just here smoking, you know, smoking some weed, getting some new ideas for weed.

2:56

And then I thought what else I would like to do is also because I worked in the cannabis industry is educate people or help to educate people that don’t really understand weed, right?

I started as a smoker and then I worked at a dispensary as a bud tender, then a supervisor and then an assistant store manager.

3:16

So I’ve got a pretty good base of knowledge and experience.

And I thought, you know, because now that weed’s been what weed is, legal, they maybe people need somebody that can help them out, you know, point them in the right direction without having to like, go to the store.

3:34

I want to prepare you for understanding what you’re getting into before you go to the store so that you’re not getting the wrong information.

So, yeah, so that’s basically the whole point of the podcast.

And I love weed.

So like, why not sit down and sex?

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3:50

Like I, you know, I don’t always have somebody to sesh with.

And sometimes it’s boring just sitting there smoking away and doing nothing, you know?

And I thought, hey, I could provide at least a little bit of like a discussion or something, something like that, you know?

4:08

So that was my idea for the podcast.

That’s the reason that the podcast was born.

It was born out of a bong hit, a bong hit and a sense of humor.

But I talk about all kinds of stuff.

I had my I had it evaluated by an SEO website and apparently it’s a mix of wheat cannabis.

4:31

It’s a mix of cannabis culture, personal growth and comedy.

That’s what they told me.

I know some people watch this and they’re like, what’s funny, you know, But if you’re a pothead, you’ll get it.

4:49

You’ll want to be part of it.

Oh, I also have in my mouth a dip.

Where did I put them?

I don’t know.

But yeah, So I, I’ve got a dip.

It’s, it’s a, it’s a THC infused dip.

There’s no tobacco.

5:08

It’s only 10.

It’s 10% per like pouch.

I don’t know if you want to put too many pouches in your mouth at once, but I’ve been, I’ve had this one in for like what time is it?

I don’t know, 20 minutes now and it’s adding to the high of the blue.

5:28

The blue is, this is good.

Actually, I’ve had it for a little while.

I haven’t really tried it ’cause I wanted to try it on the podcast and it’s good.

It’s got a body buzz like a little a nice amount of body high with like a touch of head high, a little bit of zone out.

5:51

Yeah, it’s a pretty solid daytime sativa because like my brain is active, but my body is relaxed.

Mm hmm.

It’s a nice touch.

I don’t know how long you’re supposed to leave these dips in for, though.

6:10

I guess until the flavors gone.

It’s still minty, so it should be still good, right?

I think they’re nice though.

These ones are nice to TV too.

They’re a little bit of an uplift.

You know, one of the things that I like talking about on the podcast too is stuff that happened when I worked at the store.

6:33

Because dude, at a pot shop, there’s so many characters, so many funny people come in.

Like I remember so many, such a wide variety.

When COVID, when COVID was still happening, a guy showed up in a Boba Fett helmet, a Wookie, like a jacket that resembled A Wookie, all furry and had the little sash, you know, And he just sat there talking to us as if like that was life, dude, you got a picture this, you have to picture this a guy.

7:10

You can’t, you don’t know who it is, right?

But he’s got a Boba Fett helmet on and a a Wookiee body and he’s talking to you about weed as if like whatever is happening there is normal.

I get it.

7:25

I’m weird too, dude.

But yeah, so there was that guy.

There was a guy that came in once and he rapped.

We were, I did a podcast about it, about some of these guys.

He came in and as he was doing his, as he was doing his like transaction and finalizing it, dude, I’m getting high.

7:48

That’s good weed.

It’s starting to hit me in the forehead a little bit.

But as this guy was doing his transaction, he he looks at me and he goes, hey, man, can I rap for you?

And I was like, OK, so as I’m giving him his change, he raps a verse.

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8:08

Don’t get me wrong, the rap wasn’t bad.

It was just that’s maybe not his thing.

Maybe like, write, maybe write it for other people.

You know, there was always guys that would come in and be like, like, they hated everything.

Like one guy would just come in.

It seemed like every week just to go down the, like row of cabinets and just be like, hey, I don’t like this.

8:31

This is bullshit.

This is bullshit, this is bullshit.

Like everything had a story.

Everything was bad.

All the Purdue, the people that like made it were contributors to the the the the horribleness of it, as he put it, you know, people.

8:50

I wither OK, one time, dude, this is crazy.

So one time I, I did, I talk about, I don’t know, I might be repeating myself, but I was, I was working at the counter and the door dinner goes off.

9:10

So I go up to let people in and it’s like a group of, you know, 5 or 6 university students and this one girl walks in and she’s wearing like a white pajama top, but it’s like fully see through and just comes in as if it’s not a big deal.

9:32

Like your titties are hanging out, you know, like what, what are we doing here?

Why would you leave the house with your titties hanging out?

Like you obviously need attention or want attention because you can’t not know.

You can’t not know that your titties are hanging out.

Like, are you kidding me, dude?

No, I had to go to the back on that one.

9:53

I was like, I can’t do this, I’m too old.

I’ll give, I’ll fucking catch a case.

Fucking tits, just out for the world to see.

That happened a few times.

There was a couple of those.

And then there’s always the people that feel like bug tenders don’t know what they’re doing, which I get it, a lot of them don’t, or a lot of them overdo it.

10:17

Like they’re just too into describing the weed to you.

Like, just tell me what’s good and let me go.

I was really good at taking those strains that would like mix and match together really nicely and extending your enjoyment for the evening or however long you wanted to have them.

10:38

Like I knew what what you should have at different times a day to get the result that you wanted.

So people would come to me.

That was one of my favorite parts.

People come in bringing their friends in to be like, hey, talk to this guy if you want to like have a really good night.

And then elderly or older people that come in, they they started coming in looking for like CBD and started to get interested in the planet.

11:03

A lot of them obviously very adamant about not getting high.

So you had to like, I don’t know, it was fun discussing all that stuff.

So that’s why this whole podcast has basically been me trying to explain why thoughts off the stem is thoughts off the stem.

11:20

You know, you get it.

Do you get it?

I’m sure you get it.

Yeah, yeah.

The whole point was just to enjoy weed and and have a sesh, man.

Yeah, so many characters.

11:42

But I also wanted to like.

I found that one of the best ways, the best sales, like the best sales tactics or best ways to interact with a lot of the questions that you get and the different types of the different personalities you get.

12:02

You had to transition pretty easily.

Like you had to go from one minute being like, oh bro, this stuff it like, oh, you don’t even you’re going to be a goat.

Like that’s gonna, you know, those like fainting goats, that’s you after this.

OK, You have to go from that to explaining how a CBD oil can benefit a 75 year old person that knows nothing about it.

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12:24

You know, that was fun.

You got to have all sides of my personality.

But that’s what I figured, you know, that was that’s what I figured would be a good point to doing this podcast was just to have a sesh.

12:42

Eventually I’ll get to the point where hopefully I can get some like good interviews going on.

I’ve already had a couple.

They were good, but I want to try and you know, up it.

13:06

I feel like this dip poach is pretty well done.

It’s a little minty but it gets soggy.

It’s nice though.

I also have a what is it a mango one I think that I haven’t tried.

13:22

That one might be good.

Yeah.

So I thought that in in the next few episodes, I think are going to be a series on helping understand why or what different cannabinoids are, what they do and how they can enhance your high.

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13:41

You know, take my knowledge, pass it on in terms of the feeling and the, you know, the experience.

That’s what I’m good at.

I think understanding the experience, knowing where it came from.

You.

I can’t grow.

Like I’ve tried growing a couple times.

13:58

Nope, doesn’t work for me.

I have like a black thumb.

You know what it is?

I’m impatient.

I’m super impatient.

So like, yeah, I can’t, I can’t.

I one or two times.

I tried it.

14:14

I checked on these plants all the time, dude, all the time.

It was a bad idea because I just killed them.

I tried twice.

And then I was like, you know what?

You’re not made for this.

So I thought, OK, how could I?

How could I be involved in weed other than that once it became legal?

14:32

And then, yeah, you can sell it.

Sell the experience.

That’s what most potheads want.

That’s what most stoners want.

Even if you’re not a Stoner, really, if you’re somebody that’s just interested in weed, a good way to sell it is, you know, providing the, I guess, truth about the experience.

14:55

Yeah, I love weed, dude.

I love weed.

I love the different levels that it works on.

Like it’s different than booze, you know, ’cause like booze, I feel like booze, you’re just like when you’re drunk, you’re just one way, you know?

15:17

Like if you’re happy drunk, you’re always happy when you’re drunk.

If you’re an angry drunk, you’re always angry when you’re drunk, right?

So like with weed, it’s not like that, you know, with weed you have like a multi faceted high.

15:37

You could be introspective one day.

You could be giggly and laughing and joking around Y you know, yeah highs different you can be at like more empathetic, more reflective.

15:53

Like if you’re drinking, I feel like if you’re reflecting, you’re reflecting only in like 1 avenue, you know, one way of thought.

Whereas if you, if you’re smoking weed, then you start reflecting the weed makes you sort of like try to take on a different thought, pat, like thought process or like a different, yeah, yeah, basically just a different thought process.

16:21

That’s what I’m saying.

Hi is kicking in, dude.

16:35

You know how weird it is to have a guy rap at you while you’re giving him his change?

Again, Don’t get me wrong, I feel like the writing was good, but his presentation of it.

16:57

You know, just there’s things you do and things you don’t, but I guess I get it.

You want to it’s yours.

You want to do it.

Wow, I dude, I am.

I hope you’re high because like I’m the high is really settling in right now.

17:17

I was going to smoke AI was going to smoke another unknown joint but Nope, I don’t think so.

I think I’m good.

That one little bong hit was solid 28%.

Yep, I get that.

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17:37

I smoked that in a in my dab rig because I only have a you know those straight bongs, I don’t like them get water in your mouth and shit.

I like beaker bongs, but like I don’t need such a big bong anymore.

When I need a like a bong head, it’s like I just need something little.

17:57

So I use my dab rig and dude, it works pretty well.

I’ve never done a bong head in a dab rig.

I just figured the makeup of it would like, I don’t know, dilute the high too much, but it doesn’t gives it nice clean hootie hoot.

18:15

And it’s like a nice little package, like one shot is pretty good.

You know, you’re pretty satisfied.

Yeah, man, I’m so high.

But yeah, that’s what I’m going to do.

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18:34

That’s what’s coming up.

I’m going to do a series on different cannabinoids.

I’ll start with CBD and then do CBN and then CBG and we’ll talk about how how that works and what kind of effects it has potentially, you know, because not everybody’s the same.

18:55

So it might be a little bit different, but there’s basics.

There’s basics that that are like this will a standard that’ll happen, you know?

Yeah, right.

Would that be good?

Like I’m sitting here pontificating.

19:11

I think that’d be good and helpful.

My aunt was telling me because her and some people she knows they need, they find that they need a little little help and they get they get a lot of misinformation when they go to the dispensary to try and get like CBD or whatever will fix or help or, you know, give them relief because they’re not necessarily looking to get high.

19:42

They’re looking to like, you know, just deal with some joint pain or this or that.

Dude, this weed, I’m, I’m not even, I don’t know why I’m laughing.

That’s what I’m saying.

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19:58

This weed is pretty good.

I didn’t expect that much from it.

I’m gonna try the indica one next.

But what was I saying?

Oh yeah.

I was saying that my aunt was telling me that, you know, older people need a little bit of direction and help with the with, with what they’re looking for and they, and to prepare, help them prepare.

20:21

Before they go to the dispensary so they know what they understand it a little more.

And I was like, yeah, I should do that.

I should, I should pass on my dispensary knowledge and my, my years of testing experience and help these help people that are new to it understand it better.

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20:41

So that’s what I’m going to do.

I’m going to give back.

Dude, I’m so high.

Oh, I hope you’re high.

I hope you’re enjoying the sesh.

I know it was kind of just like a explanation of what this is after 180 some odd episodes, but you know, it is what it is.

20:59

I hope you enjoy it.

I’m going to try and make it better, like all the time.

You wouldn’t believe how many people?

21:18

No, you probably would, but no, you wouldn’t.

No, I don’t know.

I don’t know what I’m talking about.

I don’t know what I’m talking about now.

All right, that’s it.

Jesus Christ.

Those are my thoughts off the stem for this week.

I hope you enjoyed the sesh.

I hope you come back next week with me.

Justin Barone, your friendly neighborhood pothead.

21:37

Check out Tots420.com if you like seeing the transcripts.

I’m starting to post them as blogs and you can read it out, reenact it.

Yeah.

You get all the links to the episodes.

21:54

If you, well, not if you should subscribe, like and share the podcast.

If you get a laugh out of it, give it to a buddy that you think will get a laugh out of it.

You know, that’s all I’m saying.

But yeah, I hope the weeks I don’t know what I’m talking about anymore.

22:16

Dude, I just got to end this.

Fuck really high off that one more hit because you know that’s how it goes.

So check out dots420.com.

Come back next week and until next time, keep your lids low baby.

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